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I’ve played with BDSM to some degree or another virtually all of my life without realizing that’s what I was doing. Over the last year I’ve started getting more active in the formal BDSM community playing at the SF Citadel, The Looking Glass, and Power Exchange. My base personality is more dominate, but I do have a submissive side that I enjoy exploring as well.
I am open to trying new things, and exploring my sexuality, but am especially drawn to:
- Dominance and submission
- Exhibitionism
- Voyeurism
As a dominate I can be sadist at times, but it is true submission that I seek in a partner. I may inflict pain but it is merely a tool to help bring someone to a better understanding of their submission to another human being. I love someone that fights and struggles and am honored when they submit themselves to me. Having someone completely surrender themselves is intoxicating.
As a submissive I love to be broken and forced to serve and please another. My partner needs to be selfish in putting their sexual satisfaction above mine. No matter what their needs are, or with whom they want to do it. I love taking care of others, and pleasing them. It’s a rush to be pushed to the point to doing this, but I also enjoy being rewarded for being good.
In the normal world I’m a father and work in the software development industry as a manager. Politically I’m fairly liberal, although perhaps not as far left as some. I am an agnostic, and lean towards atheism but appreciate many of the moral teachings from the world’s religions (if not a big believer in some of the supernatural parts). I like to think of myself as loyal, kind, and trustworthy. At home I enjoy playing video games (mostly fantasy or SciFi RPGs), reading (again mostly fantasy or SciFi), cooking, and watching TV. Outside the house I enjoy getting together with friends to talk and hang out (politics and religion is a favorite topic), dancing, snorkeling, hiking, camping, and spending time with my family.
I enjoy going out and having a good time (definitely enjoy spending time at local dungeons!), but I am not a ‘partier’ and don’t have any desire to live that lifestyle. I don’t smoke, or do serious drugs and not interested in anyone that does.
I’m looking to meet friends that I can be myself with and potential play partners to explore our sexuality. I’d like to find someone that I really click with, and can build a long term relationship with (friendship, play partner, or otherwise).
I’m looking for an easy going woman that wants someone that will love and take care of her. She should be someone that is kindhearted and giving, that can open herself up to trusting me with her life (mind, body, and soul). She should enjoy submission and giving service, but be spirited enough to warrant a little discipline at times. We should both share some sexual chemistry, but appreciate each other as much for our flaws as our strengths.
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