I figured it was about time to add to this, but free form is not my forte'.

35 year old single female with two kids. My kids are my top priority and having a "normal" homelife for them as well. New to BDSM and still learning what some of these terms mean.

I have a fairly assertive and dominant personality in day to life, but am rather submissive during bedroom play. This is why I selected switch. I am not the completely subserviant type. I am not seeking a 24/7 lifestyle and do not want to be a full time slave. I enjoy having a career and being self sufficient, not seeking someone to take care of me or mine. I want someone who can respect having an equal during the day.

What I do like is a lot of rough play. Teeth, nails, hair pulling. There is something very safe feeling about having the back of your hair grabbed and pulled and made to be very still. Confidant, aggressive, dominant men just flat out do it for me. Giving up control when you are at your most vulnerable is very heady stuff. A taste of fear chasing down your spine is lovely as well.

Generally speaking I am most attracted to men roughly my own age or younger, 25-40.

I am a BBW, very chest and hippy. If you do not know what BBW means that I am probably not the girl for you.

Any questions?