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I am getting back into this site, but have been a Dom for the last 16 years. I am very different then most people on this site. Most people on this site think they know about the lifestyle, I actually live it. I go to munches. I go to bondage clubs here in Chicago. I go to kink educational events/conventions. I do know much aspects of this lifestyle that most people fantasy about because they read the horribly written Gorean books, or they see a really bad porno movie. I am not that at all. But I do also do tons of vanilla stuff as well.
With all that being said I am a Dom. As a Dom I feel there are many aspects of this lil that the most important aspects involved in a D/s relationship are Communication, Respect, Loyalty, Honesty, and Friendship. As a Dom I will expect my submissive to listen to me, as I will strive to listen to all you have to say. In the end, as your Dom the decisions I make are those that I feel will be best for you and I in the long term. I am not a harsh Dom, I enjoy going out and having fun as long as the place you have with me is kept at all times. I will continuously push you to reach your limits and goals. As your Dom, your goals and the goals we set together are mine as well. I will enable you to feel safe and secure with in the realm of my control.
I seek a female submissive that is eager to please not only me, but in general life as well. I seek someone fun, someone not scared to commit, and someone that can make me proud. I need to have someone that enjoys feeling needed by her Dom and someone willing to commit and handover their control to me.
If you feel you are this person I would like to chat more with you. I feel building a strong foundation is very important and I am anxiously waiting to meet my future submissive.
I am on but I am taking a break from the community. Lot of drama in the BDSM community and need a break from all of it. Though I love and respect everyone, I think maybe a summer off from going to the munches and clubs and everything else is what I need.
I DO NOT PLAY GAMES. If you like games i'm not for you.
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