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Just another geek poly Dom in the Boston area. I currently have 1 poly-tolerant partner. Not heavily seeking someone new, but always open to exploring the options.
In a way, Dominance is almost my only true fetish. Every other kink (besides my voyeuristic streak) that I am involved in / curious about are expressions of it. As long as I am being Dominant in some sense (from as mild as just feeling in control or able to take control of the situation, vanilla included, through as extreme as my partner wants to go), the freak itch is scratched.
As part of that, it is a very big turn on to me to know exactly how to pleasure my partner. I like to know where all of the buttons are, so to speak; how to turn them on and play their pleasure like a virtuoso. This sometimes leads to a bit of "bottoming from the top" behavior while I learn when, where, and what my partner likes. Being able to control someone's pleasure hits my Dom itch pretty hard, actually.
This makes me extremely flexible in the fetishes I'm "compatible" with and like/love/enjoy/want. As long as it's something that doesn't outright turn me OFF (scat and necrophilia come to mind, not much else off the top of my head), I'm likely willing to at least try it and can likely find a mindset to put myself in to enjoy it quite a lot.
I am mostly driven by my "better natures" by choice in my life, but I have my Deep Dark Places as well, they are just usually under wraps. If you want to play a little (or a lot) with those parts of me that are destructive, abusive, selfish, uncaring, unremorseful, and downright dangerous... well lets just say we can see how far down the rabbit hole we want to go together. ;-)
- Mr. Nobody
(The tag is for privacy purposes, not self-identity)
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