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Still hate the crutches !!!
It has reminded Me, however, of the kind of frenetic pace that I've been setting for Myself. Being forced to slow down has been at turns liberating and frustrating in the extreme.
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Fell on ice in the driveway and dislocated My left knee. While I was at the hospital getting it repaired, My computer was still signed in ! LOL
I never realized what sadistic little tools crutches could be ! Hate these things...
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Thinking about the link between male submission and sexual arousal...
Mine....and his....
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I'm up ridiculously late.......and wondering why that espresso after dinner sounded like such a good idea LOL
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Dominance isn't all about screaming and yelling. Sometimes the most effective way of imposing your will is with a seductive whisper.....
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I've had a few emails from subs asking Me to "break" them with whippings, etc.
I have no interest whatsoever in beating someone into submission. To My mind, that's a "reactive" form of surrender - it follows a type of aversion technique. The application of force to bring about a change in behavior that results ONLY from pain or force.
What I'm looking for is much more psychological in nature...with a physical component that grows organically from My being inside your mind. I want to know the buttons to push in your psyche that increase your arousal, your need, your bonding impulse and then exploit them to bring you into a relationship with Me that makes your surrender less situational and more overwhelming.
If that includes pain in the form of spankings, etc. that have more of an encompassing reaction ( the pain of the spanking combines with a sense of correction/shame/humiliation/arousal ) , then I'll definitely use that as a training tool. But if pleasure and denied-further-pleasure works better, I would much rather use that to bind you to Me.
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I've been thinking about what truly attracts Me to a submissive...
To Me, the most intriguing thing - the one trait that makes My predatory impulse come out in true force - is their ability to embrace their own need for dominance. Their hunger calls to Mine......
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Why is it that expressing My preferences and expectations gets Me an email saying I'm a "rude bitch" ? LOL
Don't get Me wrong, I'm more than willing to cop to being a bitch on occasion ! But in this instance, I just dont see it.
Oh well.
What's that old saying....."Your opinion of me is none of my business!"
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I'm not going to use this journal for a "rant forum"
And I'm not going to address these points again - ever.
1) If you cannot send Me a note with standard English Grammar in evidence, I won't be responding to you.
2) If you will not devote more time to catching My attention than the 10 seconds it takes to send less than 3 sentences, your efforts will receive the attention it takes to hit "Delete".
3) I have been swamped with messages. Please accept My thanks for writing to Me. If I am interested in furthering the conversation, I will contact you within 48 hrs of receipt of your note. If you do not receive a reply by then, it is safe to say that I do not believe we share sufficient interests and/or I'm simply not interested and don't want to waste either of our time. I'm not going to give you a litany of reasons why or engage in a debate.
Now that I've been clearer with My preferences, I hope this puts to rest some of the "Hi, what's up?" emails I've been getting...and inspires a bit more effort.
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Just for the record - yes, that's My ass.... no, the photo wasn't cropped - it was taken by someone who was VERY focused on that particular part of My anatomy...and a photo with My face in clear view is available to anyone who impresses Me enough to deserve one.
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