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First, let me say that I do not tolerate game players, fakes or wannabe's. This site is full of them...so please..if your sincere, honest, and wish real and fulfilling D/s training in a longterm relationship...I would hope we can chat..Now..for what D.s is... Let me be your strength when tired,
your courage when frightened.
Let me take control when you have none
and lead you safely back.
Let me show you the power of love and
the strength to be found in submission.
Submit my love, come to me freely,
for I can set you free.
I will teach you trust,
and slay your demons.
I will unleash your heart,
and unbridle your passion.
I will be your love,
your True Sir. Step aside from all thinking,
and there is nowhere you can't go.
-- Seng-ts'an
The more clearly you understand yourself and your emotions, the more you become a lover of what is.
To realize your true nature, you must wait for the right moment and the right conditions. When the time comes, you are awakened as if from a dream. You understand that what you have found is your own and doesn't come from anywhere outside.
Whenever someone has asked me how do I know all of this I reply, "I'm just someone who knows the difference between what hurts and what doesn't."
My intention is to help someone live a life of truth, free from suffering. Why beat around the bush with namby-pamby techniques and outmoded paradigms? The Work works like nothing else In my experience, most other approaches, including the generic D/s model (the traditional Dom and submissive) in general, are just Band-Aids, doing little or nothing to catalyze true healing and transformation. How many people do you know who have been in the D/s arena for ayear,decade (or two or three) and are still rehashing the same issues that brought them there in the first place? If you choose to run from this reality, you run from truth, you run from yourself. In other words, there is no place else to run and you are left with what is. The truth is that by doing 'the work', you will experience pain, you will see yourself in all your imperfections and flaws. It is very difficult. However, after doing 'the work', time and time again, you realize you are loving it all, not accepting it all, or justifying it all, but loving it all...just as it is. We hold on to our 'stories' in order to avoid pain and experience pleasure in the short term even though we are selling ourselves short in the long run. The 'stories' are like jail cells we trap ourselves into to make us feel safe and secure. But as long as we stay in it, we can never experience true freedom and happiness. Opening our eyes to these things enables us to take one more step closer to our true selves. The key difference is now you are a lover of reality. Are you ready to transcend your present state and take one more step in the unfolding of your soul?
Considering that, all hatred driven hence,
The [mind] recovers radical innocence
And learns at last that it is self-delighting,
Self-appeasing, self-affrighting,
And that its own sweet will is Heaven's will.
-- William Butler Yeats
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