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First things first...please note that I am in a relationship (i.e. I have a primary partner). While I won't go into the specifics here, I will say that I'm not seeking anyone for a romantic/sexual relationship. I'm looking for D/s-only and possibly M/s down the line. Please respect my wishes on that and do not seek from me what you will not get.
NOW! If you've read the above and can accept my terms on that, please read on!
When addressing me, please address me as "Ma'am" and nothing else. My screen name here is NOT what you should call me, if you want to make a good impression.
I'm interested in submissive masochists, beautiful men who are that perfect combination of terribly impressive and yet humble about it at the same time. Men who are courteous to others, like to laugh, have a healthy level of self-confidence, are kindhearted but can still make the tough choices, and where possible defend that which they love and that which is right. I'm looking for a man who is an adult, leading a drama-free adult life.
I appreciate men who know their place in a relationship and relish it instead of being ashamed of it. I'm "out" about my kink and while I may not be loud, I am proud. I'm active in the community, where my time permits. The sub who will eventually earn my collar will be my sub everywhere, not just behind closed doors.
While I have a huge array of fetishes there are a few that I tend to shy away from. Cuckolds would be one of these and that is because my sexual relationships are on my terms and not to be dictated by a man who gets off on me putting my sexual relationship(s) on display for him in any way. A cuck who identifies more as a chaste beta and does not concern himself with my sex life, however, is acceptable. I'm also not a big fan of sissies and CD's because I'm into a lot more than just constant dress-up and feminization. Plus, I really do enjoy the male form and masculinity in general. While some dressing up is fine, it won't be the focus of my D/s.
However, you do get bonus points for having a full head of longer luscious silky hair and a handsome face! I'm a serious hair fetishist, for what it's worth.
I should also mention that while I am open to play and friendships with people of varying ages, the person I am ultimately seeking to collar is someone closer to my own age (27-35). It's nothing personal, but it is what I want.
And, of course, you need to either be local or accept the few forms in which you could actually be useful online-only.
If you serve me, you serve at My pleasure. If you cannot make my life easier, there is no place for you in it. Always remember that.
Best regards,
Madame SFX
Hard Limits
- The obvious ones (no minors, no animals, no scat, no puke).
- People who will ignore my relationship status and my wishes regarding that.
- People who want me to sub.
- Adult Babies and diapers.
- Incest play.
- Broke subs.
- Vore/live crush.
- Veganism.
- Drug addicts/alcoholics.
- People who think feet are gross.
- People with uncontrolled mental illness.
- People with anger issues, racists, misogynists, etc. And trolls! Because shit-talking on the net is not cool.
- Scientology and similar belief systems.
- Anything where there is truly a lack of consent on either side.
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