I will not get into the dirty details on here. That would be silly. If I can't connect with a lady in everyday life experiences then the intimacy in the D/s world will be weak. This connection can only happen when two people spend time together, friends first. I want more then the bells and whistles. Bottom line if the kissing is good the rest can be negotiated.

These are a couple of ideas I had and it might be a good starting place.

HIKING AND OPEN MIKE's

I just want to go out and have the fun. A couple of friends turned me on to hiking and I fell in love with it. I am also a song writer and been know to ham it up at different open mikes in north Jersey and Manhattan. These activities give me a chance to do the things I enjoy, and meet new people. There is less pressure when things are done in groups and it gives friendships a chance to develop. Sometimes these friendships grow into something more sometimes they don't. In either case, let’s just enjoy it. Life is good!