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For the past 7+ years, I have been exploring the true nature of my submission and sensuality. I yearn to serve and to surrender to the control and power of a Dominant, to absorb the powerful strength and energy that only a Dominant possesses. I have learned under the training of a professional Master to be extremely disciplined and to thrive on following directions. I derive great pleasure from pleasing a Dominant.



BDMS is so much more than just the physical. It is the ongoing voyage, a journey of self-exploration, a metaphor for life itself. I am on a mission; continually explore and learn about my submissive desires and needs, search deep within myself to challenge my own boundaries and fears; fulfill my core need to serve. Through serving, submitting and pleasing, I find great joy, pleasure and an overall sense of freedom.



Driven by my need and desire, to submit and serve, I long to share my submission. Do you want to explore the nature of Dominance and submission? Can you cherish the gift that a submissive gives you when she submits to your Dominance?



During my 48 years, I have been in a twenty-three year "vanilla" marriage, raised two beautiful adult daughters, work as a social worker in the areas of geriatrics and elder abuse, serve as a mandated child abuse reporter and assist my Ex husband in running a corporation we own together. I am neither a wilting wall flower, nor a doormat. I am an independent woman whose submission is worthy of your Dominant power. Intelligent, honest and disciplined, I can be sassy, insightful, deep, loving, passionate and silly at times. Place me in your power, and I will immerse myself in my submissive role, showing you the respect you've earned. To the extent you understand and cherish the beautiful gift a true submissive gives you, I will surrender myself to your power, relishing the strong energy you exude. As you establish a feeling of safety and security, I will break out of my protective shell, showing you just how well I can serve you. Bind me; control me; challenge my mind and body to serve you; discipline me; teach me with your unique strengths; reward me by allowing me to serve you. In return, I will give to you, along with my trust, loyalty and respect; my submission.



ADDITIONAL INFO


- I will not give my submission before meeting in person at least once.

- I am not Bi.

- I am searching for a Single Male Dom only.

- For professional reasons I am not posting a photo. However, I DO HAVE A PHOTO TO SHARE and will provide it, if I feel we have common interests.

Thank you for taking the time to read my profile.




6/26/2008 4:49:19 PM
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6/23/2008 9:20:12 AM

               Thoughts & Quotes
    
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"I had to wonder if men were so blinded by beauty that they would feel privileged to live their lives with an actual demon, so long as it was a beautiful demon" 


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There are thorns everywhere, but along the path of vice, roses bloom above them
-:Marquis DeSade:-
  

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Illusions are the hardest thing to hold...
for when it becomes reality it is no longer a dream...
find it... hold it... love it...
for one day it will be gone...

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Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart ... Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens.
-:Carl Jung:-

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One of the hardest things in life is having words in your heart that you can't utter.
-:James Earl Jones:-

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The heart has reasons that reason does not understand.
-:Jacques Bénigne Bossuel:-

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What you leave behind is not what is engraved in stone monuments, but what is woven into the lives of others.
-:Pericles:-

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Failure is not falling down, but refusing to get up
-:Chinese Proverb:-

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Never be afraid to try something new. Remember, amateurs built the ark. Professionals built the Titanic.
-:Author Unknown:-


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6/23/2008 8:58:03 AM

Who We Are

Can you say there is someone who knows you? Really knows you. The inner you, the darkest parts of you, the fragility of you? If you do not protect yourself, will anyone else do it? Does anyone want to? Have they ever?

No one has ever known me. I must protect myself because there is no one else to do so. Never has been.
6/23/2008 8:55:39 AM

My Definition of Domination
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Someone emotionally, physically, intellectually stronger than myself.

Exerts his will over mine regarding my well being and the well being of the relationship.

Has enough life experience, knowledge, wisdom to be my mentor and teacher.

Demands nothing less than my best effort in all I do.

Uses me as his tool and canvas to quench his darkest desires.

Creates an atmosphere of safety around me

Communicates and maintains well defined boundaries regarding accepted behavior.

Has the courage to be honest even when he knows the reaction will be negative.

Enjoys leadership and thrives on being the one in control. It sustains him just as much as the air he breathes: I want to FEEL this.

Provides and promotes discipline.

Readily and without prompting communicates PRECISELY what I need to be/do in order to be the best for him and satisfy all of his needs.

Relishes pushing my sensual and sexual boundaries taking me to new levels and greater heights of sensation and experience. He is constantly looking for new and creative ways to bring out the inner beast in me

mastersslaveg1rl
 
 Age: 30
 Paddington, United Kingdom