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| Hello everyone.
I am a 36-year-old wife and mother. Therefore, the first thing I require is absolute discretion.
Before I was married, I was active in "the lifestyle" in another state. That is where I met my husband. We engaged in all sorts of bdsm things as a couple.
Then, after the birth of my first child, things changed. He changed and I have to admit I changed. Priorities changed. The things going on in my head did not change, though. Unfortunately, the change has been permanent and I am no longer treated as his submissive. I need to keep my family together, though.
I consider myself attractive, in relatively good shape. As a submissive, I loved receiving pain - by whip, flogger, paddle, clamps, anything. I am not a pain slut. What I also love is the humiliation/degradation aspect, but I have explored this really only in my fantasies. I guess what I want is to be someone's filthy painwhore.
I am seeking a dominant. What is most important to me is the connection. That he/she is sane, safe, rational, experienced, smart. You will find that I am not a doormat. I have a brain and like to use it. I want a Dom, or Domme, or a TransDom who fits into the above. Again, what is the most important to me is compatibility. For the long-term. I seek a relationship - not a one-night-stand.
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