I am a natural Dominant. In my work environment I am always in charge. In the home environment I am usually very easy going and laid back. I like just about anything that has to do with the outdoors such as hiking and fishing. I enjoy not only the mountains but enjoy the beach as well.I enjoy road trips.Go out for the weekend on a drive to someplace new or somewhere I haven’t been to in a while and the enjoyment of an overnight stay and the adventure of taking a different path home. I love music! I enjoy most types of music and have my ipod loaded with a wide variety. My favorite would be classic rock. I enjoy eating healthy most of the time but do indulge in the occasional In N Out too. I also like electronics and computers. I am not religious but I do consider myself Spiritual and very sexual. I am learning Tanta currently. I have a nice massage table and very much enjoy giving warm oil massages, and of course getting them too. I have a good job, live alone and have no children. I have been out of a vanilla relationship for about a year now and I know that I will only be happy in a D/s relationship from this point forward. Once you cross that line….
For the D/s side of me, I am very patient. I enjoy training new subs. The desire they have, the hunger is very intoxicating to me. I have over 10 years experience in the BDSM world. I am by no means an expert myself. I am constantly learning the craft and enjoy going to many different events.
I am seeking a submissive to collar. I would like to find a submissive that is fun to be around. I am looking for someone who is single and ready for a real D/s relationship. I prefer someone without young children, but anything is possible with the right person.
I am very much attracted to the girly girl type, with a girl next door type of personality. Someone, who like me, appears very vanilla to everyone around them but is very much into the lifestyle when we are alone or at a party. I do like ink and piercing too. Its not a deal breaker at all, just something I think is sexy. I also enjoy someone who likes to dress for the occasion. If we are going to a fetish party then you should wear fetish clothing and be comfortable in that type of attire. She should enjoy a wide variety of BDSM activities such as bondage, flogging, and wax play just to name a few. I do enjoy some pain play as well but nothing extreme. If that is something you really enjoy, so much the better. I am always looking to expand my horizons. She should also be bisexual or at least open to the idea.