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What people see is that I'm above average educated, well informed, capable, adventurous, love the outdoors, independent. What they don't see is that I crave a dominant partner, 24/7, BDSM, HOH, yet full life best friend. You'll have my faith, friendship, loyalty, submission, attentive yet proper behavior in any venue. I'm not without experience as such, including a household with children where discretion and family orientation were high priority. i am highly responsible.

I want a Mistress/owner that is determined, strict, fair, highly physical/erotic/sexual, at least a little sadistic; an owner that understands that ownership isn't established by simply finding someone that is eager to please - that ownership is the active exercise of power and dominance - overwhelming, punishing, using her property as she wishes - understanding that the depth of what she physically/sexually inflicts/demands of me establishes hre ultimate authority/leadership. I'm not an abject slave. I'm able/will function at a high level. I want a mutual partnership, commitment, love , friendship with a woman who wants a strong/capable man, with Her as Head of a BDSM, FemDom, Household - a woman confident/determined enough to make it so.

We do need to like each other and do things together - but you need the attitude and to require/enforce that you are in charge. I am well rounded in my recreation, cultural, social likes/activities but should mention I'm especially fond of outdoor recreation: hiking, bicycle, fishing, cottage, camping, and much more. I own a home that is hard for me to imagine selling, but I can live away for long periods of time, or you can relocate here.

I have filled out the interests check list - not so much from the perspective of this is what I need/expect, but from the perspective of I know this works on me to deepen my acceptance of you as my owner/dominant/Mistress. The checklist is too simplistic for some of my feelings. You, of course, are free to be experimental and, do as you please. The Old saying "A man must do what a man must to do." certainly applies.

I don't want injured/harmed, or to do anything dangerous to my especially good health. I need someone that is themselves healthy and health/well-being conscience. I want to continue to live a fit, healthy, active life. Beyond that, as you see my fears, inhibitions, reluctance that don't suit your needs/purposes to be things you WILL change. One cannot simply pledge themselves to someone else, domination must be real/exercised.

A political word: I disdain the major political parties - conservative and liberal - they each serve themselves most of all, and their special interest groups and fail to recognize/respond to unintended consequences - there is a right and wrong and it should be the norm for all behavior.
moniwani24
 
 Age: 28
  Illinois