My thoughts on the circumstances we all find our selves in?

I am finding the search very interesting from a human nature, psychological side.

Majority of Domme's are paranoid over the following: time waster's and becoming wank material (the latter I laugh at considering what they are wearing, I do not mean to be offensive just stating the obvious and it is confirmed in most Domme journals wrt time waster's and wankers).

My thoughts are simple, if a Domme puts kink or fetish photo's on their profile then what do they expect, as the saying goes bee's to honey.  (This does not apply to all men, but yes to the first type covered later).

Yes it draws men of all types to their profile and of cause men are going to play games, its our nature (referring again to the first type of male). What do Domme's expect and in my opinion they have no right to complain as they like the attention, for years woman have known high heels, short dress, tight clothes and a smile will attract men at will. Lol we are wired up this way and its never going to change without reprogramming, but all Domme's know this and in the most cases enjoy the challenge.

There are four types of men on here typically,(first type) time waster's, who have these fantasies with no intention of acting on them (majority), then three types of submissives; door mats, ones that want nothing in return, no outside responsibilities but to accept a Domme whims (I would think very rare), then ones that are looking for a pleasant break from their mundane lives (professional services) and finally ones who are not door mats and expect something in return, a balanced relationship with a heavy tilt towards the Domme, as well as having outside responsibilities (rare but no that rare).

Now I think most Domme's love is mind control, that ability to get a man to remain a loving caring creature who pampers his Princess / Goddess and not turn it on and off when he wants something.

Now from a genuine subs a perspective, I always ask my self: Is this Domme's profile I am reading just another scam or con typically blackmail, or tribute based, sexy pics is a give away?

Domme's this is a very real concern for someone genuine, cam verification etc is all part of the scam.

Seriously someone is not going to jump straight into cam verification etc when he knows nothing about you, he may agree to coffee somewhere public to chat, but anyone real and sensible, looking for the real long term relationship, is going to want to know a lot about you first, what are your deepest darkest desires, and if a Domme is really interested in the sub will want to know the same.

Finally I have not mentioned the wannabe Domme's who cannot make their minds up what they actually want, suppose I could refer to these as 'Fifty Shades of Grey', life is not a romance novel sorry to be blunt again a break from their mundane lives.

In responce to a comment about sexy woman and men being wired that way:  My thoughts are just because a woman is sexy  wearing sexy clothes does not mean she is a piece of meat and  that men look at her or treat her as subhuman.  Yes a lot of men will hit on her but sorry to say that is life and some woman want the attention some do not.  For me personally I see everyone as an equal irrelevant of sex, race, religion etc.  An asshole is always going to be an asshole irrelevant of of these factors.  Like all good things it takes time and will involve give and take on both sides.