I've ALWAYS enjoyed being the dominant one in the bedroom, but for years I guess I suppressed those feelings thinking it was wrong or something. Then in 2002, I met a girl who liked being tied up, and I realized what I'd been missing my whole life!

Aside from that one person (we dated for about 8 months), I didn't really get a chance to explore my true self until very recently when I met a "real" sub girl. We had the most AMAZING 2-month romance, and it was incredible. Sadly, we realized that the bedroom chemistry was fantastic, but we had little else in common and ended it. But now that I know what I was missing, I'm on a mission to find the right girl for a long-term D/s relationship.

Sure, I'd love to meet submissive female playmates to explore with some more, but I'm really more of a relationship guy and looking for the right girl for something more serious than just a casual liason.

I'm a very successful professional, and I enjoy the company of SMART women. Yes, I love the D/S stuff in the bedroom, but for a serious relationship I need a woman I can respect and relate to as an adult. While I don't mean to judge anyone else, the whole "full time slave" idea where the dom always treats to sub as a posession rather than a person turns me off. I need to respect and care for the woman I'm with, and in the past I've primarily dated professional women.

My profession is that of an entrepreneur and professional investor, but I am also formally trained as a board-certified clinical hypnotherapist. Hypnosis has never been my professional occupation, but I have a strong interest in this unique healing modality, and enjoy helping people with it. The idea that hypnosis can be used to "force" someone to do something against their will is a completely inaccurate myth, but among willing participants it does have some very interesting applications in the bedroom. I've actually considered writing a book on that subject.

I haven't put a picture on this site yet, simply because I don't care to be recognized by business colleagues. I'm a good looking guy (I'm 40 but most people guess early 30s), in shape, and happy to exchange photos over e-mail.