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| Too easy to record a list of requirements disguised as interests. In truth of course any pragmatic human interaction is a balance of styles and personality, with spoken or unspoken compromise. A true match involves a mix of complementary personalities, and sensing and responding to, consciously or otherwise, the needs and likes of the other.
That said my personality is dominant, and I'd anticipate a complementary fit being with a deeply submissive woman. The rest you kind of feel out along the way. Most of the traditional interests, bondage, orgasm denial/control, spanking through to caning, nipple play etc etc. But again, that all depends on the dynamic. Doing something that isn't enjoyed by the other is at best boring.
Hypnosis is however a potent interest, both vanilla - phobias, anxiety, smoking etc, as well as in the context of this site - curing anorgasmia or vaginismus (unlikely to include anyone on here methinks!), to enhanced sexual play, orgasm control, removal of inhibitions etc. I am experienced and skilled.
(And with someone interested perhaps exploring more experimental stuff - regression to past lives etc.)
And with all that, or because of that, or as the origin of that, is the need to be in my sub's mind, to explore, to analyse, understand, influence, play with, someone's mind. So yes, a mind connection is the root of it all.
(Hypnosis for purely therapeutic purposes, with no sexual interaction or intention at all, may be on offer locally if interested, but no promises. Just ask)
Oh yes, not that it matters, Devon divorced professional. Proper profession. And bearded. Because that does seem to matter...
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I have been on this site on and off approaching 10 years. It was always a variable experience, but within that variation I have made friendships and connection with some delightful people. As everyone, you leave, then are drawn back
But it has changed. A lot. Certainly from this side of the fence.
Half the sub profiles comprise a list of demands or expectations, with attitudes that if they were Doms I would say were arrogant.
Another substantial proportion comprise fakes. Far more than used to be. You only have to search their photos.
But most irritating is the bleating hypocrisy. I have no doubt Dom's are abusive. I have no doubt subs have a rough time sometimes. It's not my style, I believe in and practice the traditional courtesies, despite increasingly finding I have to bite my tongue.
Yet 95% don't even bother replying to an approach, even when half their profile is taken up berating one line or cut and paste approaches. Mine are neither.
Of the remaining 5%, there really was no point. There follows an example. I don't pretend to eloquence or sparkling repartee, but I trust it is polite and friendly.
HypnoDoR on 12/20/16 at 3:12 PM:
Hi. Your profile caught my attention, likeable and interesting, for lots of reasons. The hypnosis in particular; that's a huge part of me, hard to explain but I think you might understand in reverse. North devon divorced professional here, a mix of the usual interests, as well as the hypno. It would be great to hear from you if interested. (Like the feet. Not quite a foot kink, but appreciate nice feet. But what do so many foot pics signify?!)
s****** on 12/20/16 at 3:16 PM:
hello hun
HypnoDoR on 12/20/16 at 3:20 PM:
Hi. Glad you replied. Caught you a few days ago, but you disappeared before I could write. You're very interesting! (I won't be cheesy with the body flattery, but take it as read also) The hypnosis as I said particularly - how much is that your thing? And you never said - why all the feet?!
s******* on 12/20/16 at 3:22 PM:
ty hun
Yes well. That was a worthwhile interaction. No point continuing.
But I'm grateful I suppose. It is clear that there really was no point being here. But I can't close the account it seems - it just waits there until you return. So a random and forgettable password I guess.
The only reason I am writing this is to cover the unlikely event that there is a reply pending. By way of apology for not responding
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Very jaded about this site, and it's been getting worse. Such odd non submissive submissive profiles, insisting on all sorts of things, and declaring their strength and intelligence in the first sentence. Who the hell does that? "Hello, I'm intelligent you know, how do you do"
Anyway, it's gotten that I now also search google for images matching those in the pics in their profile. Dare I say a quarter to a third are not genuine?
Did that today on a profile. Matching pics all over the web on foreign lingerie sites. Saw that she had one domme friend on her profile, thought I'd check that and possibly warn her. Hey ho, that profile had all the hallmarks of being fake too.
That's kind of fun, to think that the fake profiles are now so plentiful that they're ending up linking to other fakes. I wonder how that conversation goes?
Or the arguments over who sends what into whose bank account first...
Do you suppose that happens on bot enabled sites - where the bots end up chatting to each other? Something a little sinister about that thought. |
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| Age: 40 |
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