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I'm the male of the species!
A Litle History
The journey that has brought me here started about 6 years ago when I was first introduced to BSDM by attending the fantastic Impulsion (I've always been the sort of person to jump in at the deep end!). The sights that greeted me that night in a heaving nightclub full of half naked people were both shocking and exciting. Did people really do this to each other, did they really enjoy it, is there really acceptance of these desires? Within half an hour of entering the club I'd been introduced to many people, all of whom looked genuinely pleased to see me. A memory that will never leave me is how totally alien this environment was yet the welcome was so warm, it felt like i belonged.
The chip buttes were amazing too ;-)
Since then I've connected with and played with a number of lovely people, some in clubs, some privately. I've had the great privilege to meet some wonderful people some of whom I now count as best friends, experienced lots of different types of play and learnt many things (I can even eat fire now!) However I am still learning, I think you always are on this scene.
The kinky me!
I’m not a pushy or arrogant Dom and I believe that the gift of submission is one that only comes with respect and should be treasured. Whether we are sharing a coffee or glass of wine, or you're gently bound, kneeling, blindfolded and gagged, or listening to whispered thoughts that are messing with your head. Your gift of submission and your limits will always be respected. I'm also not a lifestyle Dom and although there is an something inside of me that's released with BDSM, it doesn't consume me, it's not and never will be the whole of me.
The best piece of equipment I have is my mind. All of the Violet wands, floggers and nipple clamps in the world don't make you a good Dom. Knowing, feeling, understanding and connecting with your partner does. I truly believe that there is no ‘one size fits all’ way of describing any form of D/s relationship. The dynamic is different with everyone you meet and communication is key to un-locking inner desires.
The Vanilla me!
I'm a very tactile and caring person, I'm good at listening (yes I am a man!). I'm intelligent, discreet loyal and above all honest and straight forward. I generally wear my heart on my sleeve and don't participate in game playing. I have a demanding job and work at a senior management level, although i sometimes think its a shame you can't use some of the techniques used for keeping unruly subs in line on your staff ;-). I'm quite good with my hands and I'm creative when it comes to cooking up evil ideas.
Age, looks and body shape are not important to me attitude, mind and personality are. I'd never look for a relationship based purely on kink and bdsm.
Looking back on this profile I realise it's rather long and rambling, but hopefully gives you a little flavor of me, so if you're still awake and in the least bit interesting in chatting then please drop me a line.
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