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| My personality is ENTJ-A, aka the Commander. I have been involved in the community and the lifestyle, in Arizona for 20 years. The limits I have are the limits negotiated. I am looking for commitment and a willingness to evolve. I am looking for my next adventure, the wanderlust is calling.
Just a word to the wise; I am a father, to a brilliant exceptional daughter. While she may have an idea about my lifestyle, I prefer to keep it vague. My daughter is my world. Although she, at twelve years old no less, identifies as bisexual gender fluid and is far more sophisticated than I'd rather her be, I do try my best to keep my lifestyle under her radar. For the record, it took me till the age of twenty to realize my kinks. I am not upset by my child's identity, just impressed that at twelve she knows herself that well.
In a relationship, I value challenge. That I am dominant does not mean that I require absolute, unquestioning submission. I am seeking a companion, not a doormat. A second in command, if you will. I expect anyone who I am with to hold their own opinion and have their own personality. I expect anyone I am with to know their own worth and their own heart. Overdone submission can be too much to handle, especially when choosing where to eat! If you believe that I am wrong, feel free to disagree with me, I am always open to suggestions.
However, in disagreements, remember that you chose me to have the last word, that you chose me to dominate you, and act accordingly, with respect. I completely understand that the submission of those I am with is a choice. However, once made, I expect those I am with to accept and abide by their choices.
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