I am searching a special Submissive who is new to this world and requests a gentle yet genuine introduction by a Dominant man. Have you often fantasized about relinquishing total control to a handsome man? A man whom you trust. One who is experienced at the art of firm instruction...

Through disciplined love I will train you to submit properly to a man. This may include Time outs, spankings, and other forms of punishments. I also believe in positive reinforcements and when you are worthy I will allow you to experience tremendous personal pleasures.

My philosophy as a Dom is as follows:

Above all else he cherishes his submissive, in the knowledge that the
gift she gives him is the greatest of all. He is demanding and takes
full advantage of the power given to him, but knows how to share the
pleasure that comes from that precious gift. He is in control of
himself first and foremost, so that he may control others. As a stern
and demanding Dominant, he can cause his sub to cry real tears. As the
consummate lover, he will then kiss the tears away, without ever
stepping out of character. In times of trouble, a Dominant will leave
the roles behind, to be a supportive friend and partner, never
forgetting that this is still a loving relationship between two caring
individuals. He is quick to understand the differences between fantasy
and responsibility.

He would never ask a submissive to put him before her career, or
family, just to satisfy his own pleasure. To win his submissive's
mind, body and soul, he knows he must first win her trust. He will
show his submissive humor, kindness, and warmth. He must also show her
that his guidance and tutoring is knowledgeable and deserving of her
attention, that this is a man she can learn from, and trust his
direction.

He is romantic enough to be protective and chivalrous. When called
upon, he will fight for his ladies' honor. He proves to her that he is
someone she can lean on, and depend on. He is old-fashioned enough to
be a bit of a chauvinist, yet modern enough to respect his woman.
Quick to point out the differences between them, he also knows there
is no inferiority in those differences. When it comes time to teach
his submissive her lessons of obedience, he is a strong and unyielding
professor. He will accept no flaw, nothing less than perfection from
his student. Never does he use discipline without good reason. When he
does, it is always with a knowledgeable and careful hand.

He is a careful guide, with safety always his main concern. He knows
how to use pain to extend the bounds of pleasure. He is a mentor who
can bring her to the edges of her envelope, and gently show her the
inner courage to reach new heights. He is always open to communication
and discussion, always ready to hear her wants and needs. He is
patient, taking the time to learn her limits, and knowing that as her
trust of him grows, so will they. He never has to demand ritual
behavior by her. She responds to him out the want of pleasing him.
Compliance comes from the wanting to please, not the fear of
punishment. He understands the fragile nature of mind and body, and
never violates the trust given to him.

He is secure enough to laugh at himself and the absurdities of life.
Courageous enough to accept assistance. Open minded enough to learn
new things. Strong enough to grow. His tools are mind, body, spirit
and soul with a little help from rope, paddle and blindfold. He
understands that each partner gains most from pleasuring the other.
And both of them know that love is the only binding that truly holds.

If you have long hidden your desires to explore your submissive side, this is your opportunity.


Before entering any such arrangement, a few things have to be made
perfectly clear:

- Limits must be respected
- Your safety is always a priority
- Trust is critical in any such relationship
- A "safe word" should serve as notification if one has crossed a
barrier of comfort
- Our vanilla relationships may stay intact