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Wonder why integrity, commitment, honesty and transparency are missing from these boards? Maybe the problem is the Activities Play list is the focus. If the most important thing is weather on not enemas and needle play are part of your potential relationship and there is no ethical or moral foundation, what were you expecting? I have been actively involved for over 40 years (first experience at age 16) and have watched the BDSM world explode over the internet from it's humble beginnings on the old BBS system. I am here to meet the woman who I will marry, plain and simple. Not here to play or hook up or chat or cam or any other really lame activities. As soon as I can locate her, I am out of here and this time for good. I am articulate, intelligent, creative, professional, 57 years old, seeking a life time relationship (leading to marriage) with a submissive (practicing) Christian woman. My hard limits are EVERYthing immoral, illegal and most importantly just plain STUPID (this last limit of mine covers most everything you can think of). Was a theology major (for a couple of years) in college but I am a life long learner of as much as matters. I do not own a TV on purpose. I work independently out of my home and believe there is no such thing as "too close" in a relationship. I have had a VERY full and interesting life that is entering a new period with someone new. I am firmly planted in reality and my spiritual and intellectual life do not require me to have my head planted in the clouds or up my own ass. Theologically I am Reformed, politically conservative but these should not be thought of as neatly wrapped packages. I am NOT looking for Barbie and for me maturity is a HUGE turn on, with zero interest in women under about 45ish. (I would jump over 3 twenty somethings to have one 50 year old who due to some strange mathematical equation I don't understand, is precisely SIX times hotter). I am considered attractive for my age but hold a semi-public professional internet presence so will have to send pictures should anyone be interested. I will spare you the "list" that is supposed to define who I am as if walks on the beach defined anyone except maybe those confined to wheelchairs. As I have said, this has been a journey of over 40 years for me so I have identified as Master, Daddy, HOH and the rest of the flawed labels from the internet system we have become so familiar with. The DYNAMIC between a dominant man and submissive woman can have many names but the energy is essentially the same. Styles, favorite names, pain and kink tolerance and sexual activities have LESS to do with what is really important. Two people loving each other with all their strength and all their minds is the relationship I seek. I want forever and then even past there. I do talk to God every morning and every day and check with Him on all matters in my life. Don't particularly care who thinks what about my interaction with my Creator, I have to look at myself in the mirror every day. More will come to mind and I will ad as time goes on.

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8/7/2012 8:54:14 PM

Maybe I will buy me a TV. (Turns out my grandmother was right when she said TV will rot your brain. Just wish she left her recipe for stuffed cabbage.) If I buy a TV will I not come back to Collarme and find all kinds of truth and wonderful things watching NASCAR and something called Snooki? 

 

This just may be a form of moral insanity. 


8/7/2012 8:48:13 PM

When I was young I played hard (and worked hard) at everything. Some things turned out well, like my 3 children. Other things didn't turn out so well like the relationships found on here. 

 

So should I be praying to meet someone here or praying I don't?

 

I do pray and then look back at what the old theologians called God's providence to see how He answered. 

 

I have been Master, Sir and Daddy to a few from this place and the one's I wanted to last with, left. Guess forever means different things to different people. 


8/7/2012 8:41:09 PM

So where do sin scarred old S&M folks go? 


8/7/2012 8:39:56 PM

"This is a cesspool of unhealthy attitudes and activities."


Someone put this SO well!


No, this is not an addiction. Just a way to meet someone without getting pepper sprayed.

 

 

 

 


8/6/2012 7:33:53 AM

Not so sure about those who have found their "one" and then come back to CM. Seems to me to be a shopping trip. 

 

Be advised, when I secure the one I seek, I will never come back to CM, not even for a little peek!


8/4/2012 4:35:21 AM

I had a chance to speak with someone who was horrified at the miles I have traveled in this BDSM world. So I would warn those who seek a blank slate, fueled only with internet protocol, I am the wrong guy. Internet customs came a long time AFTER I began this journey. So I don't do it quite like anyone else. I have my own way of doing it.


7/31/2012 5:20:34 AM

7/29/2012 6:32:05 AM

Note: on my selection of Paranormal in my list, I am EXTREMELY careful around this area and not a thrill seeker or someone who dabbles in it but I am experienced.

 

It is ALL very REAL and is all shrouded in incredible deceit.  


7/29/2012 5:59:33 AM

Been away for a long time. Getting over fresh wounds again from meeting one more CM predator. Not ready for the whole hide and go seek mating dance on here so I will just ease on back onto this board and try and sort through the liars, psychos, drunks, druggies, con artists, fantasy players, gold diggers and assortment of deranged, damaged souls that frequent this place. 


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 Age: 18
 Baton Rouge, Louisiana