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i believe in honor in service, humility, reverence and respect, chivalry, pampering, indulgent servitude, flr, learning and growing as a natural part of life. i believe in fidelity and monogamy, devotion and obedience. i believe in love.

i love music, the arts, writing, stimulating conversation, and nature's many blessings.

i am inclined to be a "pleaser" as a submissive and find that the Dominant preferences of my Lady become my own preferences as Her submissive. Her pleasure, and that which provides that lovely force is my focal point. Her satisfied smiles reward my adoration

i believe that nothing truly and properly works without an emotional connection, and without respect between two people even though one may be in far higher standing in the order of Power and prerogative.

i seek a FLR and accept my true place before Her, beneath Her, and owned by Her in the ways that matter.

It's the beauty, the trust and respect, and the uncommon sense of intimacy that makes this form of loving so unique and so special.

Relationship roles are defined but ever evolving, fluid, intensifying.

i walk daily in a world that is what some call vanilla. That term seems almost dismissive of what is reality, a world rich in beauty, joy, and adventure, yet there is also so much more, and that is this dark dance, this shared intimate secret of the soul meant to be shared with the extraordinary One who alone will know the depths of my aches and take them deeper still. She will expose me, guide me, and show to me Her own aches and aspirations of the spirit.

So many here seem to view D/s as "I/i do this, Y/you do that" and some laundry list of activities which seem as if they could be applied to or shared with any willing participant. my view is of a far more organic relationship where, yes, we all have our interests and experience, but hopefully looking for the meld, the dance that fits and forms with the One who truly intrigues and compells. In search of new paths, new awakenings, new 'yet to be found' adventure and enlightenment.

i offer my thanks for your gift of time in reading my profile, such as it is.



7/22/2010 3:37:05 PM
Why do people tell you what they think you want to hear when all you really want is the truth?

What could be simpler than true authenticity?  What that holds true value can ever be gained through lies and deception? 
handsupgetlow
 
 Age: 23
 Washington, Washington