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AmberPsionic
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(Note: MAJOR profile update on 8/20/2013)
I'm a switch, but I'm working to get comfortable with myself in more active BDSM again..6 and 1/2 years out of the active BDSM community loop can really throw you off your rhythm when you have been working with a closed partner for so long.
If you are looking for a weak-willed doormat pretty-boy to push around with your little finger, keep looking, he isn't sitting behind this keyboard. That doesn't mean I'm un-toppable, but you better know what you are doing and how to handle yourself (And me for that matter!), or I'm gonna see right through you.
I'm opening myself to the possibility of picking up a submissive. I just ended a 6+ year relationship that was filing that slot, but turbulence, reckless behavior and very bad choices - all from the other end - forced me to cut that relationship off swiftly for my own safety and sanity. I hope she enjoys being... whatever she is trying to be.
I KNOW this is just going to open the floodgates of fakes, pretenders and clueless horny kids - but hey, if you just want to be used and tossed away like trash, by all means, throw yourself at my feet. Just tell me what chapter of fifty-shades-of-fail you want to experience, and I'll make you 'happy'. Just don't cry when your bottom hurts and your holes get sore.
If you just want a kinky, rough fucking, just fucking say so, don't pretend to be something you arn't by lying to me and yourself..We are both gonna have a more enjoyable time, trust me. And you might just learn some new fun things you didn't expect.
Anyway..Enough sorting out where you stand, what about me?
What Am I? I'm somebody who is probably looking for a lot of the same things you are out of life. I want to explore myself, mostly, and become the best that I can at the things I learn along the way, that is what it really boils down to for me, I want to learn new things, experience new experiences, find limits and walls for me to push further back.
I enjoy BDSM. It excites me and makes me curious all at the same time, always has, probably always will. I couldn't possibly explain why it tickles my mind in so many ways in any level of detail, I'd end up writing a book.
Why don't you get to know me and find out for yourself? You already read this far.
learn these first. :P
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Safe,_sane_and_consensual
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Risk_Aware_Consensual_Kink
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Negotiation_(BDSM)
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Total_power_exchange
Here are a few of the things I'm into, looking for, or just itching to try.
(Keep in mind, I'm a BISEXUAL SWITCH, I could be on either end of many of these. Think of these as conversational starting points. Let them tickle your fancy.)
ROLEPLAYING: (And all sorts of short/long reindeer games)
Who's your daddy? (Did you finish your homework?)
Tactical assault. (Because you know you always wanted to get fucked in zipties by somebody in full tactical gear and a mask.)
Pretend prostitute. (Because you are a slut, and you fucking well know it. Monopoly money included.. :) )
Superhero sex! (Just kidding, sorry folks.)
House pet. (I always wanted a pet dog/tiger/pony/unicorn..)
Drunk 'n Disorderly (All the fun of getting smashed and mashed, none of the sharpie on your face and poorly lit porn videos, STD's, morning after pills..wrecked careers.. etc.)
Rate Dape Domination. (Because turning the tables on expectation is fun.)
Friends with forced benefits. (They won't tell anyone, or else.)
(And so, so so much more.)
CARNAL SEX:(Because your animal side is so much fun when poked with a horny stick)
Rough, raunchy and hard. To the victor goes the orgasms.
Hand to hand restraint, physical overpowering.
Biting, growling, possessive/dominant behavior.
Hair gripping and face pushing.
Procreational behavior. (Not for real, you ninny!)
BONDAGE: (Sometimes duct tape just doesn't cut it anymore.)
Suspension/slings.
Hogties and spreader bars.
Collars.
Hoods and sensory deprivation.
Wall mounted playmates. (It's called 'interactive art', you heathen!)
Gags/bits (The neighbors are trying to sleep, you know.)
Full body rigs and gear. (Because you never know when the moment will call for a latching point to be used.)
(This list is just gonna keep going..)
D/S or M/S FUN: (Because you deserve/love it.)
Nameless and faceless.
You make such a nice footrest.
Do you like ponies/puppies? I sure do! Have a carrot/milkbone.
You make a better sex toy and party favor than a person.
Chores on a leash, plus distractions.
Hmm, I seem to have misplaced my loofa, get in here.
(Etc. Etc. Etc.)
PHYSICAL APPEARANCE/DRESS CODE: (Every little bit counts.)
Waxing/body grooming.
Dress to impress.
Fitness/Diet regime.
Makeup/Hair changes.
Body ink. (Nothing permanent, sorry, that's just a regret waiting to happen for most people.)
THE REAL BIG DEAL: House servitude.
Large and private property, multiple occupants/buildings.. your day to day tasks and activities will be And just in case you are wondering, I'm dead serious. I'm being asked to recruit and screen potentials. Hi there.)
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I'm looking again.
If you are here, you probably came from my profile, I've had to cut ties with my other half after a long 6 years, and that has left me open to explore more options after it became clear they were more interested in things other than being a significant living and loving partner. Sad as it is, they made some very large mistakes that could not be mended with time.
I have a (evolving, growing) play space. Yes, I have access to gear and equipment.. And more on the way, custom built items as well as purchased are always possible, depending on what might be needed.
I manage aspects of a large and private property. It's kink friendly and well versed. In fact, others are curious what curious gems I might find out here.
So..yes, that means I'm looking, really looking.
Heres the rules people:
1: No dangerously obese people, sorry.
(That's 'obese' IE, health hazard, not 'padded', I don't mind a little extra. Sorry large ladies/gents.).
2: No pictures? Get one! Its easy!
Otherwise: Don't bother me. I have an entire streaming video setup over here, whats your excuse?
No recent test/blood work/STD papers?
I won't get anywhere near you or let you anywhere near myself without papers. Go get stuck and get a sheet! It's easy and it saves lives! (especially if you donate blood and get the free std check!)
You DO NOT want to show me falsified/fake papers if you get this far,I'll know,And I'll send you to jail for endangering and possibly premeditation, that means prison.
Still with me? Good! :D
* Picture and contact first.
* Willingness to discuss at a distance first is a must.(Public casual meeting second, etc.)
* (OK/Tulsa/etc) area only please, I'm not able/willing to relocate or travel too far.
Just send me a note, tell me a little bit about yourself, if you are interested, and if so, give some details. And just be yourself, that's all it takes to get the ball rolling.
Good luck!
Don't be put off I'm really quite nice, just covering my ass - I look forward to meeting you! Even if it's just to hang out someplace and say 'hi', I'm up for social-only as well. :)
Gee, this post is remarkably similar to my last one.. And that was 6 years ago.. Hmmmm..Guess its a good thing I didn't put a collar on that one.. :) |
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I'm getting re-involved in the scene after a long-since past unfortunate end (and difficult re-adjustment) to a powerful and wonderful relationship to a couple who introduced me to the scene in the first place.
I'm a switch, but I'll be sticking to sub/bottom for a while as I get my feet back under me, and re-test the waters since the situation now is greatly different from then. That, and I frankly feel like I could use it, time to let go of the reigns for a while and see if somebody else has what it takes to grab them.
Now that I have a house to myself again, I'll have the freedom to do this.
Yes, That means I have a play space. no, I don't have equipment yet, thats what the welding tools chains and leather are for.
So..yes, that means I'm looking, really looking.
Heres the rules people:
1: No dagerously obese people, sorry.
(Thats 'obese' IE, health hazard, not 'padded', I don't mind a little extra).
2: No pictures? Get one! Its easy!
Otherwise: Don't bother me. I have an entire streaming video setup over here, whats your excuse?
No recent test/blood work/STD papers?
I won't get anywhere near you without papers. Go get stuck and get a sheet! It's easy and it saves lives! (especially if you donate blood and get the free std check!)
You DO NOT want to show me falseified/fake papers if you get this far,I'll know,And I'll send you to jail for endangering with a virus and possibly premeditation, that means prison.
Still with me?
* Picture and contact first.
* Willingness to discuss at a distance first is a must.
* (VA/DC/NOVA) area only please, I'm not able to relocate or travel too far.
Just send me a note, tell me a little bit about yourself, if you are interested, and if so, give some details. And just be yourself, thats all it takes.
Good luck!
Don't be put off I'm really quite nice, just covering my ass - I look forward to meeting some new people! Even if it's just to hang out someplace and say 'hi', I'm up for social-only as well. :)
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It's hard to type while cutting hide and doing rivets.
You know, I was all but falling out of the idea of getting involved in 'the scene' again. Lots of reasons, No time, Don't know anybody, a little shy of clubs and such (long story, short version, I don't have much fun at clubs), nevermind doing clubs by yourself is..odd. No real transportation and such.
And then of course, as soon as I write it off I run into two people who are great folks and , you guessed it, involved in the scene. They know the clubs, they know some really nice people also regulars at the local clubs. Then suddenly I find myself with my favorite suv back in my posession.
And suddenly I'm sitting here neck deep in hardware hide and tools, whipping up new 'fun' clothes.
Life is funny that way, then it whips you.
Now if I can manage to cut all these straps and belts without slicing my hands open, THAT will be funny.
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There we go, two photo's from a security gig I ran at a NY convention. Portions blurred to protect the innocent. (I somehow doubt they would want much to do with my profile on here.) The hand down the chaps: Don't ask, don't tell, m'kay? m'kay. |
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This should be interesting, lets see how long this lasts. I don't normally use websites for this sort of thing, opting to stick to the tried and true meet and greet method. Less bullshit that way. After one phony website,one bad meeting (Alright, so it wasn't /bad/, the guy was just a clueless 'nilla with a hard on, cute in a way, but not my type.),and one stalker, you would think I'd stay away from these things. But being in a new state, new area, and not yet knowing where the social hot spots are.. I'll give this whole on-line posting thing one more try, besides, this site looks much nicer than whatever the fuck that other one was a few years ago. Who knows, maybe I can hook up with somebody who's been in the area longer than me to have a drink or two and pick up on the local buzz. Hrm,photo's, photo's..I know I have a few around here someplace.. |
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| Age: 48 |
| Ipswich,
United Kingdom |
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