I see a lot of profiles on here with very little descriptions as to what the person is seeking.  To me this indicates you are willing to be contacted to at least open a dialogue  I send a short note to break the ice and in hopes of finding out more about what they seek as I am not able to read a person's mind.  I understand if I am not your type.  I am just hoping to find out.  I also realize that many feel that no response is a response.  In my 20+ years in the lifestyle no response is not a response, it is rude on both accounts if I were to do that to you or you to me.