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Update oct.2018 xxx I am now owned as part of a Dommes stable, awaiting Her to move in with me and take a couple of Her female slaves with Her. Below is my original profile text.
I am very open to forced marriage as slave subby husband, or other contractual role reversal relationship.
As i am at a point in life when I have realized I must seek the life as submissive or slave that is my real core personality. Vanilla does not work for me, and the occasional whipping andor sex-slave relationship also does not give me the feeling of fulfillment that I crave. Also I dont want to live alone any more, but at my age I also realize I just will have to accept the Woman who may want me - and Her conditions. I am living in Copenhagen, Europe, but will also be very open for relocation and uprooting into an environment where I will have nobody but my Domme.
I am therefore very much in need of a Dominant Woman with a firm hand to guide and give me purpose and direction,and generally put me to use.
I am not really a pain lover, rather hope to be able to avoid that by good behavior and adaption, but i am a strong believer in the need for REAL Domestic Discipline to enforce my transation into a useful house slave. In such a context and when purpose is to make me a better slave, my Domme must freely and without restrictions be the one to solely decide how intense and painful punishments will have to be to give the results she want. Me as her owned slave will also benefit from this in a longer perspective as being broken into my servant role to avoid punishments, will take shorter time and feel more natural once the wanted behavior becomes part of me.
Divorced since 20 years back, and serving several Dommes since, i am not a good companion for Women who want a Vanilla macho assertive type of male. In vanilla social settings nobody suspects that I am a submissive at heart, I give the impression of being alpha.
I always felt good when under Control and discipline, being told what was expected of me. Even being inactive in wait for long periods turns me on.
I am very ripe for a real LTR relationship, even FLR marriage as slave husband, domestic discipline and TOTALLY reversed roles. I want to serve a Woman, liberate Her from the tedious tasks She dont enjoy, and feel Her POWER over me as She molds me into the person She want.
The main thing I have learnt about myself is that I fear and is afraid of pain and punishments, but that I must accept my Domme Owner must punish as She want for a Ds relationship to be real, AND She must have the Power to force me and enforce Her will.
The interests listed are not a todo-list, only as a peek into my personality. It must be YOUR needs and desires i want to have to adapt into - my main fetish is to be Dominated and be led in the role of a male wife. I will do my housework chores independently so You will not have to micromanage (unless You like micromanaging).
My only request is that i am allowed to appear Vanilla to the outside world, and that my role as totally enslaved Yours forever remains our kinky and Your sweet Secret.
Apart from that only request for a discreet vanilla front, i will be ALL Yours - in every meaning YOU want to put into those words !! YOU make and YOU modify the rules !!
Texte en francais dans le journal.
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I really feel good happy and warm when I am allowed and put work giving massages and oral service, but also very much like the intimacy of bedchamber routines in a role as male maid brushing my Owners hair, giving foot and hand massages and caring for skin and ongles. I would very much love to learn assisting in makeup and other beautyparlor-and spa duties.
Having imposed a work schedule of domestic- and beautyparlour duties that fills all my time, not allowing me any time for typical male activities and myself, except for personal hygiene, keeping reasonably fit and appropriately dressed , is my dream !!
And this I am serious about - in a real LT FLR TPE !! |
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What I seek is very simple; a feeling of belonging, a feeling of purpose, and the possibility to make a Woman sufficiently satisfied with me to express Her satisfaction - and finally the feeling and knowledge that I am owned and that I don't have the power or option to withdraw.
My main fetish is being made powerless and not be allowed to make own decisions, by mental bondage and manipulation backed by a more efficient tool; financial Control where I am given a small weekly allowance that can be cut off for punishments. For me this will be normal in a FL marriage. I am not into pain, but fully accept that whipping, canning etc is necessary to make a real D/s relationship, and that the woman in charge solely decides on when punishment is to stop |
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If you are younger than ca. 35 there is no point in contacting me.
I need a mature Woman (or two) to keep me on my toes. Very ok if you are older than me, taller and stronger. I do like good looking Women, but Your will to Dominate, grab the Power You want and enforce respect is what really attracts me.
In such a setting Your looks are not important to me , but that You want to own and enslave me and enforce Your will upon me is. |
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Je parle francais, et peut vous repondre et communiquer en francais.
D'etre mari esclave d'une Femme avec la quelle je peut vivre des periodes dans le sud de la France, serait mon réve !
De continuer ma vie seul comme maintenant me fait un peu peur á vrai dire, une relations vanille est hors question, il me faut le kink avec une Femme Dominante qui sait comment, et qui aime me tenir en laisse ! Et surtout aussi me donner du direction et raison d'être.
Le comble serait une Femme Dominante - et bi ! Je serais ravi d'etre dressé pour devenir Votre bonne á faire le ménage dans une ménage á trois ! |
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I have given my situation a lot of thoughts lately, and i have realized that i don't want to be living this life alone any more, and occasionally meet Women in vanilla or bdsm settings. I am still actually in control and can drop out if i want. I really need to be with a Woman and feel that i am in some sort of a stable and lasting interaction with Her and controlled by Her, and where opting out if not in the mood is not for me to decide. Hopefully marriage where adoration and love has a place, but with domestic discipline, subservience and obedience for me as primary principles.
To be bluntly honest, i am afraid to continue alone in life, and with my kink for submission and housework, it's impossible to be in a vanilla relationship where i have to keep this side of me hidden. I need that the Woman who want me, to fully know and at least accept that i am like this.
I don't demand or need to live kinky in any way, a vanilla front is even what i would hope for, but not demand. The only maybe kinky element needed from You will be that You must want to be the Boss in the household, and like me to be submissive and do the housework. I will very much welcome a structured life and working day.
That said, it will be Your kinks, lusts and needs i will want to become a part of.
I like sex, and like to give sex, but it is important not to be alone any more. Living with a lesbian/bi Woman or two just as domestic homekeeper and as vanilla looking male in the household, will also give me feeling fulfillment and usefulness that i crave.
I have no preferences a part from that, but i don't think You are very much Younger than me, maybe older and definitely mature, and that You will be controlling and want full control in Your home. Taller or smaller than me is unimportant - the Will to be in charge and to form a relationship where it is natural for You to hold the power and to make the decisions, is what i ideally hope for.
So please just state YOUR terms ! |
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I am definitely not a switch, i really need You to be a Dominant Alpha Female Boss insisting on having the Power. That one part in a relationship has all the power, and the other consensually agrees to be owned and obey, will make life simpler for both.
I fully accept being a bdsm plaything, but as i am not really "into" pain, i will feel more than fulfilled just being trained to be useful and properly humble, doing housework with a very real threat of being caned or whipped to improve diligence and attitude. I don't like pain, but fully accept it as an important and necessary part of a real D/s relationship.
With Domestic Discipline as integral part and the Dominant has the Power and will to freely punish, and the other accept it as normal, the submission will deepen.
Knowing that pain and punishment will follow, and that discipline and humility will be beaten into me if You are displeased with me, will be a strong motivation factor for me to improve and change behavior in a direction where we will both benefit.
You will get a better husband slave, and i will avoid or reduce punishments when improving the way You want me to, and develop into a state of mind where i really am naturally humble and service orientated in the widest possible meaning of this. |
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My only request will be that You let the relationship have a Vanilla front; and that my slave status is not too obvious to neighbors, friends and family. That will make me sink under the floor from shame. On the other hand, having that threat will give You a better grip on me !
I don't know where such a voyage will bring me, but i do know that i want enforcing as part of the transformation process, and that i prefer control to be taken away from me. For a D/s relationship to be real, You need to want and grab the power to make me obey. Then You can enforce my submission to become and feel normal for both of us. You having that power and me powerless, will simplify life and the relationship for both of us.
The type of Woman i need is assertive and dominant, and like to maintain strict control and particularly enjoys the mental aspect of a D/s relationship, as well as the physical pleasures, taking it for granted that She is to have Her whims, desires and commands fulfilled and preferably anticipated.
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I am a norwegian, living and working in Denmark, also traveling in Europe for my work, divorced and living in a house about an hour from Copenhagen.
As retirement is hopefully only a few years away, I am looking for a secondary house in south of France, preferably somewhat secluded - and to meet a Woman who want to control both me and be the Mistress of that house - with me as Her sub or maybe even slave husband. Ideally i hope that Woman to be Scandinavian, or European.
I speak both Scandinavian, english, french, and some german, am a non smoker and light social drinker.
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| Age: 18 |
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West Virginia |
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