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| I consider myself to be a sane, rational, and intelligent guy who enjoys pushing the intensity of sensation in all forms of play. To reach the mind of the sub there is a need to establish trust and trust needs to be built over time in a safe environment. In no way could it ever be considered to be included as part of the starting package.
Learning the wants and needs from a sub's reactions and using the sub's body as a channel to reach her mind is what is most rewarding for me. I like to think that I have tried most things, but I only take pleasure from a sub's enjoyment. If something doesn't do anything for the sub, then it doesn't do anything for me either. I will only act within the comfort zone and limits of a sub, although I will admit to enjoying exploring and may from time to time encourage a sub just outside of her comfort zone in an effort to establish her true limits. Having said this much, if just trailing a feather across the soles of a sub's feet sends her into orbit, I can manage that.
I much prefer leather and steel to hemp, am not averse to using an array of “toys” and I can be inventive with the equipment on hand at any given time.
If a sub becomes scared, I'll stop. If she becomes apprehensive or begins to lose interest, I'll work the problem out and get things back on track.
I should add that I have total respect for my health, body, hygiene and mind and also that of my sub. I do not do damage, unsafe, unclean or drugs. There are various avenues that I will not venture down, including (and in no particular order); skat, golden rain, drawing blood, breath play and electrocution. If you are looking for more than I am offering, please pass me by.
Ideally I am looking to meet an independent sub for a long-term relationship, who is open-minded to exploration, enjoys the psychological elements of submission and also enjoys a life outside of BDSM. Novices are welcome, as we all have to start somewhere and at some time. That being said though, this does not preclude more experienced subs from my interest.
I will endeavour to reply to all messages, as courtesy costs nothing.
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