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My primary reason for being on this site is communication and community involvement. It was refered to me by a person whose opinion I and others respect on a different site. As by her estimation this site is more closely monitored and carefully maintained, I have the highest hopes for this new site.
I have yet to realize the type of relationship I wish to have with a permanent submissive partner. Ultimately I wish for not just the respect and admiration of my partner, but to have her love as well. Don't take this admission in my profile the wrong way. I don't think that screaming in the forest "Will someone love me." will ever bring the right person to you. I would prefer to live my life by the principles and values I hold dear, and in the course of living this example the right person will see the value I can add to thier life.
I do not ascribe to the "Gorean" lifestyle. I do however believe that any household needs a leader; one dedicated to the betterment of the members of that household financially, emotionaly and morally. This leader must accept responsibility for thier actions and must further understand that they assume responsibility for any result of thier authority. In other words, assume no authority over any other person untill and unless willing to take responsibility for the outcome.
If this sounds like Army unit tactics then I am pleased. I spent 12 years in the Army and have seen the effect of both good and bad leadership.
I have seen leaders fail due to micromanaging: These failures are caused by the inablity of a micromanager to capitalize on the full potential of any given person and the lack of personal satisfaction an otherwise intillegent and capable person feels upon task assignment and execution.
I have seen other leaders fail by over delegation of authority. Everyone except the person in charge is in charge. There is no cohesive goal for the unit as a whole and therefore no pride amoung it's members. Confusion is rampant and the designated leader has no idea what the subordinates are doing.
In that middle ground is the well structured unit. That leader makes descisions and policies without favoratism, based on all available information. They listen to the concerns of thier subordinates and seek to resolve any issues detrimental to the moral or effectiveness of the group. Rewards and punishments are based on the merit of the action or infration involved.
I have gone into detail about my phylosophy of management because in the event a person sees me as a potiential romantic intrest they will have some forehand knowlege of my expectaions in that regard.
I realize that there are numerous people simply seeking a BDSM experience. For those people I can suggest that they seek not one, but any person able to demonstrate the ability and the will to satisfy your needs. Depending on what those needs are, I may be a candidate you would consider.
Nuff said
Jerry B
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Guess what? I am now 43. Yes, I was born 8 March, 1963.
The good thing about having a birthday this time of year is the ability to make your "New Years" resolutions based on it, as opossed to the coldest part of winter.
I don't ever make any actual resolutions, but I DO get back into shape. This winter was so mild I only gained 15 lbs. Of course I lost some muscle too so the actual fat added exceeds 15 lbs.
It usually takes me right at two and a half months to trim back down, but I don't have as much gain this year as I usually do.
Heh, heh. As the weather warms up you'll be seeing less of me, more often.
Ciao for now |
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Unfortunately we both knew it was coming. Given the fact that my hours were switched to overnight, almost no time together and the missing element, LadyCin and I have parted ways. No, she didn't do anything wrong. I didn't release her for some reason of undesirability or another.
Yes, I have changed my profile. No, I am not actively looking for a long term submissive. I need to change the conditions of my life befor I can expect to offer anything in a long term relationship. |
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Log out?
It sure seems simple to remember to log out of here. Then why do I forget? One of the great things about this job is unlimited work time access to a computer with high speed internet. Of course it's still a job, which means that I still have work to do. Now I really like this site but I get the feeling that there are just a whole lot of customers that would prefere not to see it, therefor I close the window as soon as anyone approaches.
Bingo!!! if I don't go back to the site and log out, the next time someone else uses the system and go to the site, they are me.
Somewhere I can see it happen:
Momma is bored with Daddy. Every day, week, month it's the same old thing. She doesn't get to see him much and when she does he's tired, or preoccupied. She's tried to drop a hint or two, but he doesn't seem to hear.
Daddy is so unhappy. Loves his wife, loves the kids but there is no excitement to his life. She like to talk sometimes when he is deep in other fantasies and it's her fault he's having them. "Ever just want to spank me." She'd once asked. Shootl yeah, but that sure isn't something he'd tell her! He stays up late at night, too much time on the internet, looking for the reason for his urges.
She can't wait for him to go to work so she can get back in contact with her online friends. At least they understand her. Too soon it is time for him to get home, and she has to go.
Friday night, thank God for the weekend. Daddy logs on and sure as anything, his favorite gal wrote him back. They have so much in common. Kids, bills, joys and problems. They share their darkest fantasies, including the unresponsive spouse they each have. He reads and rereads it, and writes her a letter just as long, just as responsive, just as soul searching. It's late, four in the morning time to go to bed. Just shut down the system, faster that way. Let windows sort it out on reboot.
Momma is more depressed than ever. Daddy didn't get to bed till four and she had to pretend to still be asleep. But she can't sleep. Just having his warm body in bed reminds her of what she is missing. He will sleep late. She get's up. Did her best friend write her. Of course he did. I writes any chance he can. She hopes he did anyway.
She goes to the computer, turns it on....
Too slow to boot. Grrr, hurry up you stupid computer.....
Finally! She types types in Collarme.com.
* * * Smiles to everyone. Feel free to write your own ending, as long as I get the movie rights. |
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Had a shocking discovery the other night. I have known for a while that one of my co-works is also into BDSM. Monday morning I discovered he also has a Collarme profile!! Was way funny to see his big mug on the screen. Was NOT so funny when I discovered I had failed to log out from the site.
Told me this morning that he was surprised to see e-mails from people he'd never met, but was more than happy to respond. Only later realized that the messages were not for him.
On the flip side of the coin, turns out he knows RC also.
I will have to post my own pictures, but NOT from this computer. I don't think either one of us want's to be confused with the other. Sorry for any confusion. |
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| Age: 20 |
| Hyderabad,
India |
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