Have now had a proper spanking courtesy of my dear playmate andiwulfs ... What do you think? *giggle*

I need seemingly conflicting things *sigh*...

I want strict control but I also want to be allowed to be my playful, fun self. I think (and it has been suggested) that I might do well with a Daddy Dom type, but I worry that they will be too "lovey-dovey" with me... I enjoy being loving to "Him" but want "Him" to be stern and affectionate while not being sappy. Does that make any sense? Probably not...