I seek a deep, loving, fun, passionate soul connection on all levels where I can truly love without limits. I yearn to build a lasting relationship based on full disclosure, brutal honesty, open communication, and no secrets. Connection, on ALL levels....(physical, mental, intellectual and emotional) for me is paramount.

I'm that pretty cool chick with a little edge and a lot of class, sensitivity, and strong intuition. I am a 'go with the flow' great energy, give love type. Being open minded and on a journey of personal growth & self awareness is essential. I like to seek fun outlets to foster a deeper dynamic & our growth together as a couple.

My preferences, needs, and desires are constantly evolving. I have yet to find a kinky role that truly defines me, though lately I would say that I most closely identified as a Hot Wife/cuckoldress with an ALPHA cuckold. There are many other kinky elements I enjoy within a power exchange. I'm a bit of a mutt and ultimately seek BALANCE....I am not interested in any forms of negativity (i.e. humiliation, degradation, etc.) I enjoy parts of the dynamic as a sub, switch, swinger, etc. As a 'sub', my submission is not typical of what most Dom's seek and it is a GIFT. It shows up in subtle ways...that would resemble a more vanilla dynamic. For example.. taking joy in my partner's well being and comfort, thoughtfulness, passion, attentiveness, being present, connection, affection...expressing my emotions and feelings and writing notes and letters, and finding the things that please my partner and doing them for the reward of his pleasure in and out of the bedroom. As a 'Domme' or in a female led relationship, I find that my style of domination is much more about being forward, confident, feminine, subtle and sensual. I top mostly from the bottom and the alpha in me could easily be encouraged to blossom with the right partner ;-) Ultimately, though, I am more of a 'go with the flow' great energy, give love type of lover and open to whatever may evolve. I believe this lifestyle offers a fun outlet to foster personal growth, self awareness, and awakening via pain, pleasure, (and meditation). Together, I love to explore the deeper dynamic that kink can offer, but I am also into seduction, exploring fantasies, and stretching our minds and limits.

Though I use the word 'slut'...I am still selective and not interested in being a collector of limited or short term shallow 'adventures'. Please be an evolved, established gentleman with class who seeks more. There must be something that draws us to one another...Show me what that is in you. Seduce my mind, and my body will follow. There really is no better way for a couple to truly connect. We only get a few firsts, however, when it comes to love....so what's the rush?

I am anxious to discover new simple joys and pleasures, and rediscover the old. I want to travel everywhere and explore the finer hidden gems while staying close to home. I love weekend adventures, dinners out, nights at the theater, events, movies, overnights at your place (you must host) where you prefer my presence more than my absence.

I am highly sensual & emotionally sensitive...a toucher & feeler. I like the energetic connection of holding hands, kissing and cuddling, before and after deep and rough sex, of course! Bring on the toys, blindfolds, rope, a taste of some mild pain like spanking, light flogging, pinching/biting nipples, tit slapping, or hot candle wax, etc.

"Vulnerability takes time and it is a strength, not a weakness. Joy, connection and belonging is what we all ultimately seek. Principles like honesty, faith, courage, integrity, willingness, humility, open mindedness, spirituality, empathy and compassion are how we get there. I don't want to fall in love. There has been enough falling for one lifetime. I seek to nurture, cultivate and grow love. Acknowledge and heal harms. Explore femininity and masculinity. Experience sensuality. Slow desire instead of instant lust. Intimacy begins in our minds, our hearts and our pasts. Letting our most vulnerable and powerful selfs be truly seen and known."
I am down a total of 127lbs. I enjoy staying active & maintain a strict diet. Due to a genetic disorder, I will always be 'thick' and equipped with amble cushion ;-). Some say that I resemble a goddess and exude sensuality & femininity. I have the unbelievable and insatiable love of love, seduction, intimacy, being spoiled, sex, cum, adoration and attention. I love to be worshipped with all hands on deck, a big cock, and even welcome the touch of a lady. I am blessed with long luscious hair, sweet sea blue eyes, plump lips, a pretty face, big booty, extra wide soft hips that can take whatever you give me, and soft, fatty amazon thighs that will make any chubby chaser go wild.

Not interested in 24/7, however, nor am I interested in the extremes involving blood, urine, feces, kids. I am evolving when it comes to polyamory, however, I get jealous! Also...I have no desire to be beaten or disrespected, and I have ABSOLUTELY no inclination to revert to the pre civil-war south. I simply want to get the most excitement out of the least activity which is something that kink can provide. If you want a slave, a naked housekeeper, or a total pain slut/Masochist, I am not your girl!