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HornsOfPleasure

I am here on Fetlife to find events, make friends and interact with respectful and friendly people. All disrespectful, drama filled assholes keep your distance. I do not even know you yet and I already do not like you. If you want to add me as a friend, please meet me in person or plan to do so. I do not collect friends. Everyone in my friends list has impacted my life in a positive way or is a friend that I enjoy wrapping my arms around to give a nice big hug. From a very young age I realized that I was much different than most people. Always being labeled as a freak and odd by friends and family was nothing more than a normal occurrence to me. When I met my lovely MrsHornsOfPleasure in high school, I knew I had found someone that was as much of a freak as I while being a polar opposite to my sadistic, narcissistic, dominant personality. I had no clue the way we acted or the things we were doing were fetishes. After living without any knowledge of this lifestyle for almost 10 years, we met some friends that introduced us to the swinger lifestyle. I found out very quickly that the swinger lifestyle, while fun to attend events and feed our exhibitionist sides by playing with one another was not for us. Respect was a very big thing for us and it is very close to non-existent with many in that lifestyle. I was introduced to Fetlife from a swinger friend we had met at a party. After getting over the complete shock that we had been into BDSM since for almost 20 years we joined Fetlife and began to attend events and meet others. I consider myself to be a very respectful, considerate and am very ego driven in everything I do in life. My ego is second only to MrsHornsOfPleasure who is the most important thing in my life. MrsHornsOfPleasure and I live a 24/7, M/s lifestyle and have done so pretty much since high school. I am non-monogamous, although I believe in equality in any relationship I may be in and if we cannot share equally between all involved than a relationship between us will not work. I currently have a wonderful wife/slave, but I am not opposed to anything additional if it matches the relationships that I am currently involved in. I have no specific ideals to what I am attracted to, but I do seek out people with the same qualities as myself instead of appearance. Those seeking a relationship with me will be respectful and patient. Although my outward appearance my not seem as such, I very much enjoy meeting and interacting with people (See the very first paragraph). I am very open about who I am, what I like and what I do. If asked, I am an open book. I identify as a Dominant, but as a Master in my relationship with MrsHornsOfPleasure. I am not a top. I will not play with anyone that I do have a very strong connection with. This is safer for everyone involved since I play with MrsHornsOfPleasure and we tend to enjoy not playing very nice most of the time. I can play very nice, but really enjoy being a mean, sadistic ass.
Lusika
 
 Age: 24
 South Africa