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*Smiles* Hello to W/whoever is reading this, here's hoping this viewing of My profile finds you in the best of heath, and generally in an all-around good mood.
Although I'm not going to reveal much personal information in this profile, I do feel it very important to talk about how I view the lifestyle, because everything else aside, I find it to be a sadly all too unique view, and I can easily imagine incompatablities on a very basic level.
To Me, the relationship is absolutely not based in sex. Yes, the sexual aspects are very important, (and loads of fun) but they're important and fun because of the relationship, not visa versa. A true relationship is founded on trust, respect, and love...Although sadly the last one comes as a suprise to most, but it's very true.
I'll expound.
Trust. Because Y.you -need- trust, a slave needs to be able to trust her Master absolutely, trust Him with her life...because that's literally what she's giving Him. she needs to trust Him with everything in her mind, as she's giving that to Him as well...nothing is too little or big to trust to His care, no problem or thought too small to share. And He needs to be able to trust her with everything. I don't believe the relationship need be completely stiff and formal, a Master and slave should be 'friends', completely open with each O.other, -want- to share thoughts and feels, want to hear and learn them about the O.other. If they are truly confident in their places, and the Master is good, knowing His slave's place and how to keep her there, it should not be a problem. So the Master also needs to be able to trust His slave, to feel completely comfortable around her...these are only a -few- of the examples of why trust is so, so important...but they -should- provide a good picture.
Respect: The respect a submissive must have for her Master would -seem- obvious, but it's actually much more complex. Most demand respect, when they should understand that it -must- be -earned- you've run into so many fakes, obviously it's very easy to -call- yourself a master...But that doesn't mean they get your respect, it -must- be earned...But, if truly earned, it will be the most powerful thing in the world. It will keep a slave in line, not because she fears punishment, but at the very -thought- of disappointing her Master...It will make her feel completely safe in her submission, knowing He is truly worthy. And a Master must also respect His slave...submission -is- a gift, Mind, Body, Soul, and Heart...truly the biggest gift one can give, given freely to Him. It is not to be taken lightly. And she has thoughts, feelings, emotions...they -do- matter. Yes at the end of the day His word is final, but if He's a good Master, her thoughts and feelings will matter to Him very much.
Love: Because once truly that close to S.someone, it should be natural...It -does- not mean losing her place, kneeling at her feet, mouth open for whatever He chooses to insert...it does not mean not being spanked, called a whore, made to beg for her bedtime fucking...It means loving every second of it...because of the O.other person involved.
I'm always interested in talking and meeting new P.people, so don't feel at all shy about contacting Me.
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