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Please note: If you have no idea how to write an introductory email, learn before writing to me. If you don't and send me stupid crap about having a cup of coffee, one liners, pictures of your genitals or your phone number, I may delete the mail unread, or I may very well tell you where to go.
There is only one reason I will engage in humiliation and that is when someone sends me ridiculous email that shows they didn't bother to read my profile at all.
The biggest thing you need to do when you write to me? Make sure you have read my profile and understand what I am looking for and that it is what interests you as well.
While I have no issues against cross-dressers, transgenders or those who want someone to "sissify" them, it is not for me relationship wise, so please, spare yourself the time and don't write to me. I have no interest in you.
UPDATE: For all of you porn obsessed fools who are looking for someone stupid enough to jump on the opportunity to make all your fantasies come true, don't come looking to me. I'm not interested, although I am likely to verbally humiliate you in a response email.
Ultimately, I am looking for a long term relationship. Relationships take time to build, and I expect you to be as willing to put in the time as I am.
For me, dominance is not about sex or fetishes. You are not submissive to me because I humiliate you, punish you or there are kinky sexual games to be played. You submit to me because your mind tells you to. Dominance and submission should be a mental/psychological thing to you.
Obviously if you are looking for someone who will make you scrub their floors wearing a tutu and toe shoes, I'm not for you. Frankly, I don't really care what you wear when scrubbing my floor, since it is being scrubbed to get it clean, not because I get off watching you do it.
If you are looking for someone who will put you in chastity either for fun or punishment, you also aren't for me. For me, you will be chaste because it is what I expect of you, and you want to please me. You won't need artificial devices to help you on that path.
If the need to punish you arises (and because of your desire to please me, it should not be necessary), don't expect it to be physical. It may or may not, depending on MY mood. I believe in positive reinforcement, and I won't tolerate someone being disobedient so that they can reap the "reward" of a punishment.
So what does this mean to you? It means if sex is your primary motivator, move on. If your fetishes are your motivator, move on. However, if your motivation is a desire to serve a woman who you care about, and who cares about you, we should talk.
About me: Divorced with an adult child and a granddaughter whom I adore. I am retired and no longer work outside the home, although I am a professional writer who occasionally takes on writing jobs. I am intelligent and funny and enjoy a good laugh. I am at the moment a BBW, although that could and likely will change in the future.
About you: You are intelligent, available and LOCAL. You aren't currently married. You should have a good sense of humor and be caring and sensitive. You like to cook (alone or with your partner). You live close enough to me that you are available to serve regularly. You want something that will develop into a long term relationship.
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