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| I'm a dominant male that loves music, martial arts, motorcycling (when my bike isn't wrecked), and... well... we all know why we're here... yeah, I love to see a woman struggle for me. I'm hoping to find a submissive woman that is interested in having another woman involved regularly; so I'm talking a solid pervert here. But oh no, not just any pervert - but a pervert that gets it. What is "it"? That understands that a love bond is vital (at least it is with me) to make a relationship work. That understands that she has to be responsible for expressing herself and communicating. That understands that she'll get my total support/guidance, but that I'll expect her to match my energies with her own. I'm looking for devotion, surrender, vulnerability, and sincerity. While it may sound like a tall order to some, I don't think it is too much to ask. In short, I'm looking for a submissive woman (i.e. not a childish mind)... but roleplay is cool. ;)
I'm involved with a lovely submissive named Kayla at the moment. She's on here as graceadieu. I'm the sadistic weirdo that she is hanging out with... poor thing. At any rate, you'd probably want to get along with her if you're looking to get along with me. I know she'd love that as well.
You can get me more directly on ya-know where-oo messanger as majorkahn.
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I've been talking to a few submissives on here and I've been very pleased with most of the conversations. However, I have very clear things that I expect in conversation that, if gone repeatedly unmet, will make me lose any interest in talking to you. A good example of this is when someone drops out in the middle of a conversation without explanation for 5+ minutes. If I'm talking to you, then I'm taking time out of the other things I'm interested in to do that. I'm not so egotistical to be unable to deal with someone having to answer a phone or whatever... a simple "brb" is fine... but don't make it a constant habit. If you're busy, that's ok - we can talk later on. If you can't manage your time well enough to be consistent in conversation, then you're probably not going to do such a great job being attentive to what I'd want you to do as my submissive. The key here, in all sincerity, is communication. Tell me you'll be right back and, if something is going to take awhile, tell me that you need to go. Simple stuff, really... I'm also not a big fan of people giving me a tough time about my preferences. If you don't want to do something I'm into, no problem. I'm not asking you to do it if we've just met on here. Like you, I need time to build trust as well - just because you're a submissive woman doesn't mean I am ready to move you in and take responsibility for your potentially insane ass. Giving me drama because I like something you don't like or understand is lame and shows a pretty closed mind. If you want to ask me questions about my preferences, then I'd be more than happy to talk about it. Realize that I'm not here to be judged; I'm here to meet someone that is interested in what I'm interested in. If that isn't you, that's alright with me. I don't mind waiting for the right submissive woman - she'll be worth it. As crummy as this may sound, I'm actually having a great time meeting people on here and getting to know them. :) |
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Another email observation... and I won't call this a rant, but there's rant potential here. Why would you tell someone to type out some huge fantasty when they contact you? In my thinking, a situation that is created with you in mind is a lot more interesting than a situation that's sort of an off the shelf fantasy that you get plopped into. It's fascinating to me, honestly. Why would someone prefer something so stock and mediocre rather than taking the time to find out some things about someone before belching out some scenerio? If you're not willing to take the time to get to know someone, then are you really serious about doing this as a lifestyle? Are you in fantasy land or are you really thinking about the longterm with this person?
These are questions more than complaints. I just found this interesting. What do you think? |
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OK, pet peeve #1 -
I saw someone on here that was interesting and I wrote about three paragraphs of well thought out and (at the risk of sounding arrogant) articulate text. This person complained about one line emails in her profile. Here was how she replied to my email:
"Not college...law school. Much more time demanding. And money brought me to the states. "
I realize that many women on here have tons of emails to answer. I also understand that maybe some just aren't interested in me and want to answer with something because they don't want to be rude. Just realize that if you don't want "one-liners" from people, then you have to not respond with one-liners. If you aren't interested in me, just say so and move on. I know that many people don't take rejection well; I see it as you saving me the time of dropping energy on you that's useless.
It just comes across as passive-aggressive selfishness posing as submission. Whatever, next!
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| Age: 25 |
| Podolsk,
Russia |
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