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Let's keep this simple. I'm a man looking for a woman. I'm no kind of extremist. I want a friend, not a slave. I want a wife and a lover, not a footstool. I'm easy to get along with. I love my family and friends. I love my God. I'm a big picture guy, a leader of sorts, and a bit of a visionary. I like helping people and serving my community. I smile almost constantly and can find the humor in almost any situation. I don't want a lot of rules and demands. I'd rather have open communication and honesty. I want to take it easy and enjoy my life, not control it. I'm here because I'm kinky. We can talk about that if you like. It's part of who I am, but it does not define me. I'm always growing and learning about myself. Make no mistake, I'm an Alpha Male. I know my roles and responsibilities to the woman in the relationship. Won't you join me on the ride of my life?

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3/10/2009 11:25:56 AM
For personal reasons, I'm bailing on collarme.  If we've been talking and/or you wish to contact me, leave a message here and I'  check in before I delete my account later this week.  Take it easy.

3/7/2009 9:16:39 PM
The only thing sexier (domestically at least) than knowing that my woman has cooked or cleaned for me, is catching her in the act.  I love it when a woman is serving me and our relationship in domestic ways.  There's just something so incredibly hot about seeing her cleaning the bathroom or folding laundry that makes me want to take her then and there.

3/4/2009 9:55:08 AM
I love to teach.  Not in a formal setting, but more one-on-one.  I like imparting my knowledge and experience onto those around me.  I like to see people hatch their own ideas and come to their own conclusions and decisions.  It's not like giving advice.  It's empowering people within themselves to do what is right and what they truly desire to do.

3/2/2009 7:47:01 AM
A game of baseball...
Let me tell you how I want to watch a few baseball games every year.  Gotta have the right snacks, the right beverage, a nice TV and a ball-girl.  The ball girl is the best part of the game.  If you aren't familiar with baseball, the ball girl sits in a chair, in foul territory, and scoops up the grounded foul balls that come her way.  My ball-girl has a similar, albeit simpler job.  She takes position either on her knees in front of my chair, or lying on her back on the floor.  Her job is use her mouth, and only her mouth to warm and massage my balls for the duration of the three hour baseball game.  Now, I may send her to get me another drink, but her primary purpose is to take good care of my balls for the afternoon.  No cock sucking, no either of us unless I sanction it.  Just pampering my balls with her warm, wet mouth for a few hours.  Is that too much to ask?

2/26/2009 4:25:51 AM
I'm looking forward to having a wife who can have fun hanging out with my family for the weekend.  By the pool, cooking out on the grill, good conversation.  And she knows, that when we leave for that island vacation next week, I'll be seeing her in that slingshot bikini on the beach.  Or, she's looking forward to kneeling for me on our hotel balcony and serving me openly, without fear of judgement or questioning.  Our relationship will run the gamut between loving family couple and slightly depraved sex junkies who are addicted to each other.

2/24/2009 10:41:51 AM
Integrity.  According to Webster, it is a firm adherence to a code of especially moral or artistic values.  I define integrity as doing the right thing, even if no one is looking.  It could mean that I pass up a night at the strip-club (which I always do) because I know it's not good for my relationship.  Or, it could mean that while I'm away on business (hypothetically) she keeps herself appropriately groomed and the house in order because she knows it's the right thing to do, and not because of fear or any other motivation than simple character.

2/19/2009 11:15:59 AM
Know your sexy!!! (I didn't misspell your) Your sexy is something inside of you that everyone else can see when you let it out. It's a state of mind that you enter into when your sexy is taking over. It's when you look in the mirror and have to take second look because you know how hot your ass looks in those heels and skirt. it's that feeling of naughty when your hair is just right. it's the tingling in your belly when you find yourself kneeling before a man who has earned your service and respect. Whatever your sexy is, know it, grow it, and harness it for your own use. Make your sexy your slave. I know I want to.

2/19/2009 4:47:35 AM
Correction, Discipline, Punishment... These three are all well defined in my mind and all very unique in their own right. Correction will come in the form of stern but friendly reminder. Usually it will come when you have done a misstep during a new task that you're learning, or if that misstep is in public. The idea of correction is to bring you back in line quickly and subtly with a look and tone of voice that lets you know that you have overlooked (perhaps) something but have not disappointed me. Discipline will come when you fail in a task that is normal occurence for you. You have successfully completed this task, maybe, hundreds of times in the past. You weren't focused, or you were hurrying, or whatever is the excuse. Discipline will come as soon as is reasonable. Discipline will take many forms. If you failed at the task of washing my feet you may find yourself bound on the floor holding my big toes in your mouth until I see fit. If you miss a routine workout, you may find yourself put through a workout of my choosing. If the bathroom or some other room is not cleaned properly you may find yourself cleaning it in bondage, or with a toothbrush. If you fail to deepthroat my cock properly, you may find yourself proving your worth on a fake cock, or gagged so that nothing else is allowed in your mouth until you have remastered your position. My discipline comes from disappointment, not anger. It is for your betterment as the woman in my life and as a submissive. Punishment is a different animal altogether. It is delivered when you have failed as a person. Maybe you have lied, or stolen, or cheated. Maybe you have mistreated a friend or family member. Punishment comes swift and harsh. it is intended to alter your behavior bring into focus who you should be as a woman, friend, etc... I do not enjoy punishment, and neither will you. I will be happy if I NEVER administer it. But know that I will, for your own good.

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DarlinNicki
 
 Age: 29
 London, United Kingdom