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There comes a time when a person must throw, at least some, caution to the wind. While this girl is not searching out a Dominant, she won't ignore the fact that there may be One out there that is right for her. this girl is keeping her options open. this girl is not owned or collared, and has not been for some time now. This is nothing new, she has just not "advertised" the fact for her own reasons.
One can be domineering but not be a Dominant and one can be subservient without being a submissive. this girl is a submissive, but she will not bow down to just anyone who calls themselves a Dominant just because they like the title and the power that can come with it. she will show respect to all, but will not compromise herself mentally, emotionally, or physically, nor will this girl settle or pretend just to boost another's ego. Naturally submissive, this girl's actions speak accurately to the person she is, just as a natural Dominant's actions will speak to who He/She is.
this girl is non-judgmental, always willing to learn and try new things, generally easy to get along with, and a has been told she has the heart of a slave. The lifestyle is just that, a LIFEstyle for this girl, and she strives to live it 24/7. For her, it is not about just kinky or rough sex, or being led through life on a chain. It is much deeper and more meaningful. If you do not understand that BDSM is as much, or more, mental than physical, then we will probably not go very far. The One who makes this girl desire to better herself as a person and a submissive not for Him/Her but because of Him/Her is the One who will receive her true and full submission.
A friend once said that while she is a sub, her submission has to be taken. It is somewhat the same for this girl – her submission must be earned and that is not an easy task, but well worth the work. this girl is submissive, but not stupid, weak, or needy (well, not all the time, lol!) this girl has a brain and opinions and a strong sense of self-worth. submissive does not equal doormat in this girl's world.
If you have made it this far (YAY!), you have noticed this girl has certain protocols she follows. It is how this girl was trained, but she knows each Dom/Domme has Their own protocols and styles. Just because this girl was trained one way, does not mean she is stuck in that way forever. But, the way this girl was trained is the way she presents herself formally at this point; she follows the protocols she was taught. When/if this girl has someone to answer to besides herself, then she may make protocol modifications to please Him/Her if need be.
**Some quick facts about tehya:**
* Protocol is important to her (duh!)
* Structure is important to her
* she is a brat
* she has a 'little' side but she is seldom seen
* she is still learning about her possible masochist-side (others say she has one but she's uncertain)
* she is very sexual but always smart about it
* she is very loyal and her connections to those who are important in her life run very deep; those connections will not be compromised
Growth is never-ending, and this journey has no final destination.
~ tehya ~
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i have no plans to move out-of-state any time soon, and i don't have a lot of time for travel. Cyber relationships with no chance of meeting in person are fine for some, but not me. So, if you are a million miles away and can't or won't travel (at least for visits), the chances of us getting deeper than exchanging a few messages are slim. Not trying to sound bitchy, just up-front. :) |
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