Sometimes, as a slave, you are told to do something - or that you will be doing something - that you know in your heart is downright detestable to you or at the least very uncomfortable.

That is a good time to ask yourself if you belong in the lifestyle.  A slave does more than a girlfriend would and expect less.  Are you strong enough?  Brave enough?  Are you willing to put someone else before yourself?

If you can't say yes to these questions then you are only a wannabe.  Is that what you really want?  A pretender?  Someone who is more of a "gimme" person, or who serves to be served?

Be real.