FANTASY v REALITY !
THIS IS THE HARDEST THING FOR THE NOVICE TO ACCPET
THE FANTASY
BEFORE WE JOIN THESE SITES WE HAVE AN IMAGE IN OUR HEADS OF THE "ONE " WE ARE LOOKING FOR
THIS IMAGE MAY HAVE BEEN REFINED AND DEVELOPED OVER MANY YEARS . FUELED BY EROTIC STORIES, VIDEOS AND PHOTOS
THAT SPECIAL ONE WHO WILL TAME YOU THE PERFECT DOM WHOS THE PERFECT GENT RICH & POWERFULL, CHARMING ,INTELLIGENT WITTY ,STRONG ,THE ALPHA MALE. WHO INSTANTLY KNOWS EXACTLY WHAT YOU NEED AND DESIRE WHO AFTER THE FIRST INSTANT CAN GET INSIDE YOUR HEAD ETC
THIS IMAGE IS THE FANTASY
THE REALITY
THE REALITY IS A COMPROMISE IN TRUTH NO ONE CAN MEASURE UP TO THIS IMAGE
NO ONE IS PERFECT WE ALL HAVE OUR FAULTS
NOT TALL ENOUGH TOO TALL TOO FAT TOO THIN WRONG COLOUR EYES WRONG COLOUR HAIR TOO YOUNG TOO OLD TOO VANILLA TOO DOM MAD DANGEROUS HES MARRIED AND SO ON
TO PURSUE SOMETHING THAT DOES NOT EXSIT IS PURE FOLLY WILL CAUSE NOTHING BUT MISERY AND DESPAIR FRUSTRATION AND DEPRESSION
IT ONLY TAKES A FEW MINS OF LOOKING AT THE PROFILES ON DATING SITES TO SEE THE SAME FACES YEAR AFTER YEAR AFTER YEAR "LOOKING FOR MY ONE "
ALL REALTIONSHIPS ARE BASED ON A TRUST AND THE CHEMISTRY
LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS RARELY LAST
AS WE GET OLDER OUR OPTIONS DECREASE
SET THE STANDARD AT A REALISTIC LEVEL
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