hinasama on Collarspace

I can get along with just about anyone as long as they aren't indecently dressed or very foul mouthed. I tend to keep to myself, I'm an introvert and enjoy my time alone, but at the same time I'm very lonely. I would like to meet someone extroverted that in a sense would grab me by the wrist and drag me along.
I am a transgender girl and not ashamed of being myself, woot! Infact I feel very proud to be honest about that, for once in my life I feel like I'm finally reaching happiness and in time I will have the body I was supposed to be born with, its so exciting.
There is only one type of person I'm attracted to ok. Its ok if you are bigger than me but I don't want you to be like huge. I prefer someone who is skinny but not Emo skinny. They must be dominate and into BDSM as well as Latex and Gothic Fashion. I'd prefer it if you dressed as such most of the time and even had outfits for me to wear cause that would be so flippin' awesome. Oh a very important feature would be to have plenty of patience and understanding towards my situation, that I would really appreciate, thanks. It also doesn't matter if its a boy or a girl.
I'm not really familiar with everything BDSM but I do really enjoy bondage, specifically mummification; be it plastic wrap, duct tape, trashbags, pallet wrap, shrink wrap. Cause I'd love to get wrapped up nice and tight with a gag and maybe have a vibrator in me or just be played with.
On another note as well I am also wanting to form a Goth/Industrial/Erotica band. I am planning on being the singer and would need like guitarists, bassist, keyboardist, drummer, possibly violinist. It has been my life long dream to be apart of a band (though I would appreciate you being around my age)
Also I've never had a relationship before so I would kind of like to be with someone I tend to fill comfortable with like another Trans or another woman to help break the ice so to speak.