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Aloha, I am what some call a sensual Dom focused on Total Power Exchange, especially with service oriented slaves (i.e. Ms Pepperpot to Tony Stark or someone that NEEDS to be totally devoted to another in order to be truely happy). Friends are always welcome. I have found a natural connection to those I have met which are born or raised in the lifestyle. I am also a very spiritual and polyfidelic man by nature. As not to waste anyone's time I am only seeking relationships leading to "long-term" serious commitment. I am NOT going to offer to relocate you after only a few conversations. This is my life and not a game.

Some of my other interests include traditional medicine, psychology, astrology, growing plants and food. I love animals, cooking, teaching,travel, outdoors, swimming, the water, walking and fitness. I also like music ranging from classical, opera, to the most modern dance music. I am sharing all this "non-lifestyle" info with you because contrary to some beliefs "24/7" means 24-hours / 7-days per week. Regardless of ones sex-drive their needs to be compatibility especially in a TPE relationship. I would not by a house I did not wish to live-in happily for many year, so then why would I care any less in the acquistion of the most available property I will ever possess...my slave(s)

I am interested in very service oriented slave(s) that desire long-term and to eventually be devoted 24/7 in TPE servitude. Do you have a true "service-heart"? Do you seek to also embrace the spiritual side of being a slave? Does the thought of being the completely owned property of your Master give you a feeling of freedom & empowerment? If this is not you, then I am pleased to say there are 1000's of others on CM that are waiting to know you better. If this is you, I welcome your contact me.

When contacting me simply be yourself. I have no need for theatrics and creative titles. If nothing else I can promise you haven't met many like me before.
Best wishes
11/2/2013 11:46:09 PM

I saw this posting entitled "The Man...The Master" on a different site. I am aware who originally wrote it but would like to express my thanks anyway. "The Man...The Master" expresses how I live my own in such a beautiful way, that I choose to share it here on CM.

 

A Man who displays sensitivity Will be a Master who is sensitive to you

A Man who displays humility will be a Master who will show you respect

A Man who is not afraid to cry will be a Master who understands your tears

A Man who is quiet will be a Master who will hear your quietest whisper

A Man who knows fear will be a Master who will not leave you to face yours alone

A Man who will listen to a child will be a Master who will always work to understand your words

A Man who can stand alone will be a Master who will not crush you under His weight

A Man who controls Himself with ease will be a Master with the ability to control you in the same way

A Man who does not have to prove His point will be a Master with many worthwhile points to share

A Man who never makes demands will be a Master who treasures anything you give

A Man who doesn't run after you will be a Master you will never need to run away from

A Man who is calm will be a Master who can weather your storms

A Man who has walked the path to peace will be a Master able to guide you along that path

A Man who does not shout will be a Master who will never deafen you

A Man who knows Himself will be a Master who will have time to know you

A Man who knows Himself will be a Master who will have time to know you

A Man who never stops learning will be a Master who never stops growing

A Man who always seeks to be the best He can be for you is the only Man truly worthy of being called Master.

6/20/2009 4:24:32 PM

Occasionally I receive an email or have an IM chat with someone that has either known me over the last few years or has actually read thru more then the first page of my blog posts on another site. The questions usually come in the form of “Why would you desire the TPE life-style if not for all the sex?”

The question is valid and to the casual observer point's at what can easily be considered critical flaws in my thinking. So I decided that I had not effectively expressed myself in the past and shall endeavor to do so now, here as a member of .

First to the question of SEX (I love how people focus in on that topic...lol). I am polyamorous

I believe the average person spends (far) less then 1-hour per day having sexual intercourse. So unless I were some übersexual I expect I would not spend more then 21-hours a week in sexual intercourse (my actual norm). Well then what to do with nearly 147 remaining hours each week?

Why would I ever want to be involved in a lifestyle (if 15% of my time can be considered that) primary because of sex or fetish activities?

If for only that I wouldn’t. Although I respect the choice of those that find it is right for them and sincerely wish them well.

Now here comes the rub. What I have been interested in is something I call ELVES (based upon the popular image of industrious elves joyfully being of service).

ELVES

Enthusiastic : experiencing intense enjoyment from being pleasing to others.

Versatile: Able to adapt so as to being useful in many different functions or activities.

Loyalty: Giving or showing firm and constant support or allegiance to a person or institution.

Empowered: having the authority and resources to do something.

Service-Oriented: Experiencing true happiness by being of service to others. Without regard for compensation or praise (that filters-out at least 80% of the general population).

I would say to anyone if you have those traits and can devote at least 8-hours per week then do so.

Find a person, group, or program in your community. If you are in the D/s lifestyle then find a Dom/me that can give you guidance so that you can become empowered (even if that is based online).

ELVES are a truly rare and remarkable breed, yet the best places I have observed them are in volunteer programs and online (especially within the open-source communities).

This planet needs you more now then it ever has before!

6/15/2009 2:02:44 PM

I am most usually in complete control of my environment. I am actually quite blessed in that many people I encounter naturally seem to enjoy being of service to me.

However often when a submissive or slave initially communicates with me online. They seem to be put off that I am not demanding, domineering or abusive enough in my words.

I actually received an email yesterday by a very young slave seeking a new Master, her question was "I read some of your blog. I don't understand why you can consider yourself a Master when it's clear your a submissive." Her question was a sincere one so I made-up a short story to explain it to her. I decided to share it with all of you as well.

There was once a Drill Instructor (DI) that was unlike any other at the boot camp. He always had a smile, and very rarely needed to raise his voice let alone scream or physically punish his recruits. Now this didn’t sit well with the other instructors which regularly made comments about him behind his back, and often in the presence of their own recruits.

One day shortly before graduation at the mess hall a group of recruits were speaking with each other. They began to swap horror stories about boot camp, and how they hated there Drill Instructors (DIs). That is when the “happy” DI was mentioned.

They began laughing about him, and repeating the stories they heard from there own DIs. About him being weak, and perhaps even gay (which is why he was always so happy to be around fit young men). It was at that point that one of the recruits spoke up. “He is nothing like that!”. “Oh how do you know?” another said. “Because he IS my DI” the recruit replied.

You guys don’t have a clue. He is a combat veteran and has been awarded for bravery.

On the first day of boot camp when we met him. He walked into our barracks and started screaming at us! Before we knew it he had us aching and exhausted from all the things he had us doing. Then he just left. The next day when he arrived we were all scared of this crazy bastard! There wasn’t one of us that didn’t already hate him. But something was different, he walked in with a smile on his face, and spoke calmly not yelling once. He told us to be at easy and gather around.

This is what he said to us. “You can train a dog to obey you out of fear. Yet that dog will abandon or attack you when given the chance. How many of you by a show of hands understand how that dog may feel?” (almost everyone raised there hands)

“Good! When I came in here yesterday I gave you a lesson in fear. But you can also train a dog with love, discipline, and patience. That dog will die before it is disloyal or stops attempting to please you. Now each of you willingly chose to be here. So the desire to succeed is already within you. The conditioning and lessons you learn here are to prepare you for service.”

“One day each of you may be faced with being killed or worse, and the only support you will have are those wearing the same uniform as you. The only reason I am able to be here today is because of another soldier, who would not abandon me even though at the time he knew it could cost him his life. I promise each of you here and now. If you follow my orders unconditionally. I will prepare and empower each of you (as those that have come before you , and shall after you) to succeed and thrive. So when that day comes, and you look to the person next to you. You can be safe in knowing you can trust your life to them, and them to you.”

From that moment on he never had to yell at us. Training is hard sure, and he expects 110% in everything we do. But each of us want to give him 120%, because we know we can count on him, and each other no matter what comes our way. You guys want to kill you die DIs. While we would die for ours ....

4/1/2007 10:02:17 PM
Hello just a update to save you some time on your search. I have a preference for young and white slaves, especially those raised in D/s families. I find those raised in the lifestyle have a more holistic understanding of servitude.

I have been known to take great pleasure in providing humiliation and objectification.

It is also true I welcome "Very passable" trans slaves. Thanks for the many emails I have receive. However I am neither sexually attracted to men, nor am I interested in financing a transformation (well perhaps for a very special slave).

Also things I am definitely not:
Black supremacist, or very sadistic. I don't knock either, but like flavors of ice-cream we all have our favorites and often they are not the same. Just ask Ben and Jerry
11/20/2006 10:48:09 AM
One of my hobbies is astrology (I find pleasure in doing birth charts). When contacting me, don't be surprised if I request your birth day, birth time, and nearest major city. I like to see if there is a basic astrological compatibility present.
4/5/2006 2:43:58 PM
If you desire to know more about me, then simply ask. Or you may review my personal blog 360.yahoo.com/hikina7 .
AngelinATL
 
 Age: 34
 PVE, California