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Rules for My slave/Switches Owning slaves
As I understand the need to dominate someone, I do allow for My slave switches to own thier own slaves. But there are still very strict rules for this. As always these are subject to change at My discretion and at anytime. Again this is purely discretionary that I allow My slaves to own other slaves. Do not believe it to be your right or try to abuse it. It is a privilage and can be taken away at anytime.
1) As My slaves are submissive to Me and Me alone, you will not be allowed to own any switches yourself (male or female). they must be completely submissive at all times, and you must be dominant over them at all times.
2) As My slave you will be allowed to own both male and female slaves, but the rules will be different for each of them.
3) As My slave, your slaves will be required to seek My permission inorder to serve you. they must send Me an email with atleast a brief introduction and expressing thier desire to serve and why they desire to serve you and what they are looking for in the Lifestyle.
4) Any slave that you own will not only have to follow any rules you have for them, but will also have to know and follow all the rules and protocol of My House aswell.
5) While We will respect your relationship with your slaves, they will be expected to concider it an honor and privilage to fulfill any reasonable request or command by both Me and Mistress Jamie. This will not include any request or command of a sexual nature, but will include any involving service in a submissive manner.
6) Any slaves that you own will know that your time and attention lies primarilly with Us, and that they are privilaged that We allow them to spend your free time with them.
7) Any slave you own will know that they are owned by you at Our liesure, and that should We feel the need to We will have you release them with no questions. Period. ( While this will most likely will not be the case. We will discuss and concerns or problems We have with any slave you own with you before hand, but We do reserve the right to dismiss them without question. This is non-negotiable. )
8) If any of your slaves disrespects Our relationship at any point in any manner, they are to be released and not to be spoken to again.
10) As a Dominant I know that you will inevitably develope feelings for your slaves. These are not to become greater than the love of a Dominant for a slave, should they become more personal and develope into a more vanilla relationship, you are to notify Mistress or Me immediately. Should these feelings be strong enough that you begin to question your devotion to Us, you will either have the choice of releasing your slave or forfietting your place and Collar with Us.
11) As your slave they will belong to you and Mistress and Me alone, your sisters have no claim to them what so ever. Any sister slave found breaking this rule must be reported to Me or Mistress immediately where W/we will consult you on what thier punishment is to be, which you will enforce.
12) None of your slave sisters is allowed to participate in any session with you and one of your slaves without express permission from both you AND Me. Any violation of this will cause the immediate release of your slave and punishment of both you and your slave sister involved. Aswell as bring into question the status of your place and Collar in Our House.
13) There will also be no sexual consorting between your slaves or your slave sisters. Just as your body belongs to Me so does thiers. Any violation of this rule will immediately result in the release of not only your slave, but the slave sister aswell.
14) All rules apply to Online slaves aswell as RealLife slavery. Any rule that forbids an act or action in Real Life also forbids that act or action in Cyberspace aswell. Any Online slaves are to be treated as they would be in the flesh and they are expected to follow all rules Online as they would in the flesh. No Exemptions.
15) All Emails, YIMs, and Online Sessions between you and your slaves will be kept unedited and sent to Me for review on every sunday.
Rules for Owning male slaves
1) As My slave your body belongs to Me alone. No male slave is to fully know your body as I do. you may wear sexy and revealing clothing that I must approve of ahead of time, but you are not to expose your full breasts and nipples or your pussy to any male slave you own.
2) As My slave your sexual pleasure is for Me and Me alone, and as such, no male slave will be allowed to penetrate you in anyway with any part of thier body. Nor are they allowed to know the pleasure of your orgasm, as it is part of your sexual being and so to belongs solely to Me alone.
3) As I am a Master Myself, I understand the desire to sexually torture O/one's slaves. So I will not completely forbid all sexual forms of play between you and your male slave. CBT, Queening, Milking, Foot worship, Sodomisation, Nipple torture, and Fisting of your slaves is all acceptable. If you have any questions as to whether or not a form of play you wish to do with your male slave is acceptable or not, come to Me to ask for clarification and permission First.
4) As My slave, your body is for My cum only period. Should any male slave of yours get any cum on you in anyway, they are to immediately lick it off of you and then be punished for thier neglience.
5) As your body belongs to Me as My slave, so do your lips. No male slave is to know the taste of your lips. They are for Me alone. you may show affection to your male slaves by kissing them on the forehead or cheek, but otherwise you lips are off limits.
6) As My slave, you will eventually live in My Home, your male slaves will not. Nor are they allowed to live in your home. They may live close to you and visit your home for sessions, but they are not to spend more than 24 hours in your home (This is in case of extra long sessions and recovery time) Should one be visiting you from out of state, they may stay at a hotel close to you, but are not to stay with you at your home.
7) No male slave is to challenge My Dominance over you, Nor are they allowed to expect a vanilla relationship beyond friendship from you. Should any male slave begin to deman or beg for anything more than slavery to you, they are to be released and never spoken to again.
8) As My slave you belong to Me and Me alone and give everything to Me. Therefore you are forbidden from having your male slaves as boyfriends or husbands.
Rules for Owning female slaves
1) As My slave your body belongs to Me. It is only with My permission that I allow you to share that body with another, even a female slave of your own. you may wear sexy and revealing clothing that I must approve of ahead of time. This may include attire that reveals your full breasts and nipples or you pussy.
2) As My slave your sexual pleasure is for Me and Me alone, it is only with My permission that I allow you to share that pleasure with your female slaves, even then they are not to know the full depths of your sexual being. They may not penetrate you with anything but thier tongues.
3) As My slave your orgasm belong to Me and Me alone. you are not aloowed to share it with even your female slaves without express permission from Me.
4) As your body belongs to Me as My slave, so do your lips. No female slave is to know the taste of your lips. They are for Me alone. you may show affection to your female slaves by kissing them on the forehead or cheek, but otherwise you lips are off limits.
5) As I am a Master Myself, I understand the desire to sexually torture O/one's slaves. you will be permited to use all form forms of sexual torture with your female slaves, unless I specificilly limit them otherwise, which I reserve the right to do in any way at any point I see fit.
6) As My slave, you will eventually live in My Home, your female slaves will also be allowed to live with you in My Home aswell. your are allowed to have your female slaves with you aswell, as long as they remember thier place. they will not share your bed as lovers, as it is reserved for Me, Mistress and your slave sisters only. Should they follow you when you join Me in My home, they will sleep in your room with you, but not in your bed.
7) No female slave is to challenge My Dominance over you, Nor are they allowed to expect a vanilla relationship beyond friendship from you. Should any female slave begin to deman or beg for anything more than slavery to you, they are to be released and never spoken to again. The exemption to this is if they express the desire to become your slave sister in the service of My House. At which point it will be brought to Me and Mistress and W/we will discuss the possibility of them releasing themselves from your collar and begining training of a slave in My House under either Mistress' Collar or Mine.
8) As My slave you belong to Me and Me alone and give everything to Me. Therefore you are forbidden from having your female slaves as girlfriends or lovers.
**The Breaking of any of these rules will result in sevier punishment and not only the loss of the right to own your own slaves, but possibly the loss of your collar. I am willing to discuss certian change possibilities should any unique situations arise, but once I have said My final word, that will be it. No exemptions. Take it or leave it.**
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Lesson 2: Etiquette, Protocol, and Manners
The BDSM Lifestyle is built on Etiquette, Protocol, and Manners. O/one's Behaviour and how T/they treat O/others tells more about how T/they view the Lifestyle then anything else.
A slave's every word, and action, reflects upon their Owner. It shows the Quality of the Owner they have, the kind of taste that Owner has in a slave, the kind of training the Owner feels is important.
Their is a variety of types of Etiquette, Protocol and Manners. Two basics are Vanilla and BDSM.
Vanilla Etiquette and protocol will often vary depending upon the country. And with the world wide web, this becomes more and more aproblem as different people from different culters communicate online.
BDSM Etiquette is broken down into many smaller parts as well. Each Owner has Their own protocol for Their House. But there is more commonally accepted Party and Dungeon Etiquette and Protocol. Plus there is Etiquette for Old Gaurd, Leather Men, Goreans, and More.
A good slave will be as well versed in as much as possible. Because a slave is often the first emissary of their Owner.
So here are several links on both Vanilla and Lifestyle BDSM...
you will be expected to go over and learn and practice as much as possible.
http://www.evilmonk.org/A/epost.cfm
http://www.iron-rose.com/IR/docs/etiq.htm
http://www.dominanetwork.com/articles/protocol.htm
http://www.blackzeus.net/Theia/Journals/Basic_Protocol_And.htm
http://goreanway.com/gor/law.htm
http://goreanway.com/gor/rlrules.htm
http://www.steel-door.com/Cyber.html
http://www.steel-door.com/dungeon_etiquette.htm
http://www.steel-door.com/etiquette.htm
http://www.bdsmcircle.net/dslifestyle/formaldinning.htm
http://www.bdsmcircle.net/dslifestyle/etiquetteforpublicplay.htm
http://www.frugaldomme.com/frugal.htm
Much of this may seem repetative, and there are reasons for that. So that you understand that while the Lifestyle is varied and unique. There is still a common curtisy that exists and is expected.
One must always show respect for others. Earned or Not.
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Lesson 1 : Realities of Submission
The First thing you have to do is understand the difference between the Lifestyle and the Fantasy of BDSM. you need to understand what the realities are of being a sub/slave.
Here is a number of articles I requires you to read to better understand this difference. you will have 1 month to read these articles and write an essay about what you have learned from these articles.
This essay will be 2000 words long. In this essay you will discuss what you have learned from these articles. What you have learned about yourself from these articles. If you are or are not a submissive or slave, and where you see yourself.
http://www.albanypowerexchange.com/BDSMinfo/new_folks.htm
http://www.albanypowerexchange.com/BDSMinfo/new_page_1.htm
http://www.albanypowerexchange.com/BDSMinfo/bdsm_basics.htm
http://www.steel-door.com/submission.htm
http://www.steel-door.com/Submissive_vs_Slave.html
http://www.bdsmcircle.net/dslifestyle/the9levelsofsubmission2.htm
http://www.steel-door.com/sub_mythology.htm
http://www.steel-door.com/good_submissive.htm
http://www.bdsmcircle.net/dslifestyle/TotalPowerExchange.htm
http://www.fetishexchange.org/slave-realities.shtml
http://www.steel-door.com/24_7.htm
http://www.steel-door.com/dark_realities.html
http://www.steel-door.com/substatistics.htm
http://www.bornslaves.com/born.html |
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slave Position & Yoga Assignment
you will be required to learn the following slave positions. you will be required to be able to assume each position upon verbal command.
http://www.frugaldomme.com/esoteric/techni12.htm
http://goreanway.com/gor/positions.htm
you will also be required to learn and practice yoga. you will be required to be able to assume each of these positions upon verbal command.
http://www.yogapoint.com/info/yogasana.htm
http://yoga.lovetoknow.com/Main_Page
http://www.healthandyoga.com/index.html
http://www.yogacards.com/yoga-postures.html
http://yoga.about.com/od/yogaposes/An_Index_of_Yoga_Poses.htm
The learning of slave positions is a common practice in order to simplify and cut down on the time it takes to do alot of bondage play.
It is also a way to focus or refocus the mind of slaves when they forget their place.
But the main reason I use slave postions is to develope the slave mind in a form of active meditation. Using the philosophy in yoga that one empties the mind gradually to focus solely on perfecting the position. This is much like the philosophy of slave training where the slave is to work towards gradually empting the mind to focus solely on being found pleasing to their Owner.
you will be required to work the slave positions into a routine with the yoga which you will practice daily. you will practice these postions infront of a full length mirror.
The first month you will practice dressed in comfortable in exercise clothing (sweats ect).
The Second month you will practice while only wearing underwear.
The thrid month and from that time on, you will practice completely in the nude.
While you practice these postions you will focus on the perfection of the postion to be found pleasing. you will meditate on how pleasing you are. How proud I am of you. How beautiful I find you. How beautiful I find your submission. And how I know that you wish to please Me so that you will gladly assume any position, any where, at any time, infront of any one. With or without clothing.
At the end of the third month you will be expected to be quized on these positions on web cam. And be able to assume the various position by the name of the position only.
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Journal Assignment
In your journey through your training you will keep a nightly journal. In this journal you write your feelings, your thoughts, your concerns and your realizations about yourself. you will not be punished for what you write in your journal. It is completely yours for expressing yourself.
But
Each sunday you will send a copy of that weeks journal to Me. It will not be seen by anyone else, and will only be used to help Me better understand you and train you on your journey. |
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slave Modes
I use three different modes in which I place My slave in at any given time. They are slave Mode, service Mode, and at-ease Mode. Each Mode has set protocols for behavior that you as My slave will be expected to learn and follow. How you present, speak, sit, eat, and dress is determined by preexisting rules that is tied to each Mode. That means that you be taught how to act depending on the Mode I place you in. Obedience is the goal. Practiced constantly they will allow you to develope the mentality and thought to be a slave in My House. These principles allow you to obey, at all times and in all circumstances. As My slave you expected to learn and use these Modes to display yourself and exhibit acceptable behavior. Each of these Modes is expected to be applied to Online behaviour just as faithfully as you would in Real Life. Any level other than the "slave Mode" is a privilege granted by Us. If ypu are uncertain what Mode you are to be in –then you should go to the "slave Mode".
Each of the three modes are detailed and explained below.
slave Mode
1. INTRODUCTION
I use this Mode for several things. Basic Training of all House protocol, Executing Punishment, and for "Play" Sessions, or when I feel the High Protocol is appropriate.
"slave Mode" is a silent mode for My slaves and a disturbance of this silence is subject to punishment.
The slave in the "slave Mode" is 100 percent under My or Mistress' direction and control. Almost every action requires a command.
The slave in the "slave Mode" will always Present when entering the room where I or Mistress are, for the purpose of determining any order We may have for her and to determine the mode she is to be in.
Entering this Mode is signaled by the "attention" command word "kajira." When ever this word is used in a command sentance with you, you will automatically assume the "slave Mode" and preform the command without question or hesitation.
2. GENERAL BEHAVIOR
a. As My slave you never ask permission, nor are permitted the use of the word "may" in the "slave Mode." Either of those expressions implies that you could want something that the I or Mistress does not. Our response then becomes one of either acquiescing to the request or denying the request. Since as My slave you only wants and need what I and Mistress want and need, there can be no conflict and you only ask Our intention regarding your activity.
b. As My slave you are denied the use of any of the items listed below, without first determining Mine or Mistress' explicit intention by asking. The We must know of all of your activities, at all times, no exceptions. All of your being is controlled at all times in the "slave mode."
c. The specific items which never are used, except when ordered, include:
Food/drink (water is an exception)
Electronics, of any kind (including telephone)
Furniture both public and private.
Clothing (My slaves present completely in the nude unless specifically instructed otherwise. they also serve completely in the nude unless specificly ordered otherwise)
d. you will never, under any circumstances, touch any of Our devices used in the control, discipline, or training of you or any of Our other slaves without express permission, (Exception to rule) 1) unless We should leave any device or toy with you. Even then you are not allowed to play with the toy without permission. you are, however, required to move, store, clean, maintain, and service any toys and devices left with you. The toys and devices may be inspected to determine if they are properly stored, cleaned and serviced at any time. 2) you may be required to use one of Our toys or devices while training another slave to serve Us better.
e. Anything, including clothing that We put onto you is left on. It is considered to be locked on, and only removed by Us or with Our permission. Included are items such as hats, ropes, and collars. To remove a restraining device or anything else used in you training would be a violation of both this and the previous principle
3. slave MODE -OBEDIENCE
It is the heart, character, and fiber of a slave to be obedient. Obedience is the prompt, eager, and cheerful wanting of only Mistress or I want. It is disobedient for a slave to:
Indulge in, express, display, or act out anger, moodiness, or any form of disruptive emotion, behavior, or thought. Such characteristics are a violation of cheerfulness.
Display by tone, body language, or expression her disagreement with, couple minutes) move locations to where you can see Our eyes if practical and does not delay Us or restrict Our work.
b) If We leaves your sight you may move to a new location to Present as to not loose track of Us until We acknowledges you Presenting and issue an order to you.
c) If his attention is need quickly she may say "Master?" or "Mistress?" and wait for Our attention and acknowledgement. she would then properly pass the information along to her Master. she should be sure that his attention is need faster and it is not just because she does not want to wait
C. LEAVING
As Our slave you will separate yourself physically from Us only when:
i. you have been ordered to perform a task that requires you to leave the room We are in.
ii. you ask, in normal format, if We want you to continue
iii. you say, as a minimum, "Master/or/Mistress, Your slave will..., if You wish?" e.g. ...answer Your phone.
When you are asking what Our intention is, We may add, "and return?" to the question. Sometimes We will tell you, "and return" after answering Our question. When the "return" is used, whether a part of your question, or because We have ordered it, you will move back into the position and activity that you were performing when you left. you would not Present when you return, and, instead, would sit back down, lie back down, or immediately return to the activity being performed when you asked Our intention.
D. If you have a question
you say "Master Sir?" or "Mistress M'Lady?"
Await acknowledgment
Ask your question, as described in the communications section
Respond "Yes Master" or "Yes Mistress"
If the question has become an order, takes care of the new order, or
Additionally asks "Master/or/Mistress, do You wish Your slave to continue?"
Responds "Yes Master/or/Mistress"
Continues or remains as ordered.
5. COMMUNICATION
a. "Master & Mistress" is Our role, title, and name. you will always refer to Us only as "Master"/"Mistress", "The Master"/"The Mistress" , "my Master"/"my Mistress", "Sir"/"M'Lady", or "my Owner" depending on how it is being used in a sentence, and to whom you are speaking.
b. As Our slave, you will reference to yourself always as "Your slave" when speaking to Us in "slave Mode". When speaking with others, you will refer to yourself as "this slave" while in "slave Mode". In "slave Mode" you will never use the words "me", "my" or "I". The only exceptions are that you can say "my Master", "my slave sister", or "my slavery"
c. A slave says "Yes Master/or/Mistress" every time the slave:
i. Is given any order
ii. Is told any piece of information, even if it doesn't affect you
iii. Have your speech or behavior corrected or explained
you say "No Master/or/Mistress!" when your response is negative.
d. you can answer any yes or no questions asked of you by stating "yes/no, Sir/or/M'Lady" or "yes/no Master/or/Mistress", and will respond to assuming a position with only "yes, Sir" (example: the command - kneel - will be answered –"yes, Sir")
e. As My slave, you never speak unless spoken to in "slave Mode". When you feel a need for Our attention, you enter into Our consciousness by:
i. Presenting yourself
ii. Immediately asking only one time "Master/or/Mistress Sir/or/M'Lady?"
you always express your request for Our attention regardless of what We are doing at the time. The request is presented in such a way as to NOT disturb what We are doing at the time, but sufficient to make Us aware of the request.
iii. Await Our acknowledgment
iv. If asking a "yes" or "no" question say "Master/or/Mistress, do You wish Your slave to...," (whatever yes/no question you have), beginning with "Master/or/Mistress".
v. If asking to go to the bathroom, ask "Master/or/Mistress, do You wish Your slave to go to the bathroom?"
vi. The slave responds "Yes Master/or/Mistress!" no matter what Our response to any question.
vii. If the question implies an action, you will, after the normal "Yes Master/or/Mistress!" you will do the action and Present to Us for further instruction unless you are told to continue.
viii. If the question doesn't imply an action, you will additionally ask "Master/or/Mistress, do You wish Your slave to continue?" Again, you will respond "Yes Master/or/Mistress" no matter what answer is given.
ix. If you feel the need to ask a question that is longer than a yes/no question, you will ask:
(1) "Master/or/Mistress, do You wish Your slave to ask a question?"
(2) Await Our response.
(3) Say "Yes Mater/or/Mistress"
(4) ask your question if Our response was yes.
x. If the slave feels the need to make a comment, she asks:
(1) "Master/or/Mistress, do You wish Your slave to make a comment?"
(2) await Our response
(3) respond "Yes Master/or/Mistress"
(4) make the comment, if question answered is yes.
f. If you are already engaged in conversation with one of Us, you do not have to present by saying "Master/or/Mistress?"
g. When one of Us has asked you a question, you do not need to ask Our intention regarding making a comment,
h. As a slave you will refer to other slaves as "slave (first name), "my slave sister", or other identifiers or names defined by her Master.
i. "Master/or/Mistress, beg Your pardon please" is the only way you should express your accidental activities. A slave never says "sorry", or "excuse me." It would be appropriate for you to use "Beg Your Pardon Sir" in a crowd when you have bumped into another.
j. "Master/or/Mistress, beg Your pardon please" is also the appropriate response when you didn't hear or clearly understand an order. you will say "Yes Master/or/Mistress" only when you fully understand the explanation or order and when you feel the appreciation for having it given to you.
k. In "slave Mode" you will enter into a conversation in Our presence by asking "Master/or/Mistress Sir/or/M'Lady?" "Do You wish Your slave to make a comment?" This allows you into the conversation. One of Us might also directly invite you into the conversation with a sign, a word, a look, or a nod which indicates Our order to speak. you, as always, responds "Yes Master/or/Mistress"
l. When speaking with Us, every sentence is begun with the word "Master/or/Mistress", and EVERY pause filled with "Sir/or/M'Lady" whether for a breath, a new thought, or any other purpose. When there is more than one thought to express, you can use a single "Master/or/Mistress" at the begining of the conversation. Thoughts are expressed clearly, succinctly, and without run-on. Each thought is ended, rather than held with "you know", "uh" or any other holder of speech. No holder of speech is ever used except for "Sir/or/M'Lady"
m. slaves are free to speak between themselves, even in the presence of Us, so long as it is not distracting, does not compete with what We want to express, can be immediately and easily interrupted by Our interjection, and doesn't interfere with the position any slave is currently holding.
n. A slave can always ask for clarification and understanding. you can ask if We are ready to receive your comments, but a slave does not ever argue!
o. In writing, any reference to a slave is always in the small case, even at the beginning of a sentence. References to persons of respect are always capitalized. The use of "I", "me", and "my" applies to writing, the same as in speech.
6. ORDERS
a. Every question you ask regarding Our intention becomes an order once We have answered and should be followed with "Yes Master/or/Mistress."
b. you Present yourself to say with your presence that you has completed all orders, has no need for Our attention, and you are ready for the next order. When all current orders are complete, you come within one of Our lines of sight, and Present yourself. you will always fully Present, on your knees in the House Position to recieve the first orders of the day. you have the option of Presenting yourself Standing once you have begun service for the day, but can always fully Present yourself whenever it feels natural. At this point, you may be instructed to "your place" to remain until needed. you will quietly remain in "your place" until given an order. If you wish to speak while in "your place" you must say "Master/or/Mistress?" clearly to be heard and await Our reply.
c. Anything else may be added as is deemed important. Further, as time progresses, through your training, advice will become orders for you. Some of those orders will include what you are to do between sessions to improve your life, to prepare for slavery and improve you as a slave.
7. BEHAVIOR
In general, you must learn and accept all slave behavior as being normal, and learn to behave in a way that is natural-looking and feeling. Additionally, you must always act and respond to make Us look "right" about the orders We give. As a slave you do not respond in any way that causes the appearance that We as your Dominants have made a mistake. This is not a game of "gotcha." you are allowed to ask that any order be clarified to you.
As a slave you have to learn to act as naturally, with the same obedience, lack of attitude, and coordination with Our actions as if you were part of Our body. To act any other way, is to act in a disabled, disrespectful, and disobedient way. A slave does not invite mockery or criticism, and feels none when doing as ordered. If you cannot accept your behavior as a slave as normal, it is unfair to expect the public to accept it as normal. A slave always acts with dignity, and in a way that reflects positively on thier Dominant.
When told to "sit", a slave sits on the floor. That is what "sit" means to a slave. When a slave is told to "lie down," she does so on a slave mattress or pad, not a bed. Beds and chairs are furniture which a slave is not authorized to use without being specifically ordered to do so.
A slave does not sit anywhere, at any time, without the specific order of thier Dominant, except in an area designated as slave space (the slave's place). That space may be designated within the Dominant's home, or at any other location. If such a space is not designated, then as a slave you are NOT free to sit. Even when in the slave space, if one of Us enters that space, the you would immediately rise to Present in the House position, and remain in that position until told to "continue" or until given another order.
A slave never begins to eat until We have begun, AND everyone due respect who is within Our communication or concern has begun. A slave's authority to eat is given when We authorize food to be prepared for the slave, or when a slave is authorized to order from a menu. A slave does not ask if it is thier Dominant's intention for the slave to eat when there is food sitting in front of the slave, but the slave does not begin to consume that food until all, except slaves, have begun. If any Dominant in the area is not eating, the slave must have an explicit order to begin eating. At an eating table, a slave stands Presented, rather than fully Presenting in the House Position while awaiting orders to sit and begin.
When a slave feels the need for food or drink, the slave always asks thier Dominant Thier need first, then adds, "and Your slave?" A sample behavior would include:
i. Presenting appropriately, either full or standing
ii. Asking "Master/or/Mistress Sir/or/M'Lady?"
iii. Awaiting acknowledgment
iv. Asking "Master/or/Mistress, do You wish Your slave to get You some wine?"
v. Responding "Yes Master/or/Mistress"
vi. Then adding "and Your slave?"
vii. Again responding "Yes Master/or/Mistress, Thank You Sir/or/M'Lady"
Whenever another slave Presents to one of Us, all other slaves in the vacinity will also Present with that slave, i.e. a slave never watches another slave Present themself; they join the other slave in Presenting. Once Presented, all slaves must wait for an order which allows each slave to move once again. The only exceptions are 1) when the Non-Presented slaves have been ordered to sleep and are in their ordered positions to sleep or when bound or otherwise encumbered in such a way that the Presentation position cannot be physically achieved. Presented slaves always align in an orderly fashion. 2) one slave is being used to train another slave.
In the "slave Mode", you will walk behind one of Us, basically in a "leashed" position. This means that you follow one of Us as if you are leashed. Even when walking, as always, you as a slave only speak after you have requested "Sir/or/M'Lady?", unless responding to one of Our questions. The side you follow behind on will be determined by a command such as "heel left" or "heel right."
8. PUBLIC BEHAVIOR IN THE slave MODE
The "at ease Mode" is considered the normal mode for you as a slave in public, unless it’s a BDSM function: The following rules apply when you are ordered into the "slave Mode" in public. This is accomplished by giving the "attention" command "kajira". When ordered to the "slave Mode" in public the following behavior rules apply.
a. you will respond to Our presence in public the same as in private with some modifications to prevent inviting public criticism. your behavior must always engender respect for slavery, and for Us as your Dominants. No activity is to ever intentionally nor carelessly endanger that objective. Under most public circumstances, the following modification will accommodate the public's acceptance and understanding.
b. In the general public, in "slave Mode" you will Present Standing instead of Fully in the House Position, to enter or leave Our presence. The "Public Present" is done by standing with your arms straight with your hands resting one ontop of the other infront of you. Head bowed slightly with eyes either on Us or lowered and awaiting Our acknowladgment by saying, "Sir/or/M'Lady."
c. In a restaurant, as a slave you will always (no matter what mode you are in) stand at the end of the booth or beside the chair in the "Public Present," until one of Us tells you, or points to the seat, to indicate that you should sit. you will then discretely say "Thank You Sir/or/M'Lady," and take your seat.
d. In a work, family, or school situation around people who are not aware of the lifestyle, or where it would clearly be inappropriate. you as a slave never use language which would invite criticism, cause disrespect for slaves, or endanger the effectiveness of the slave's work or profession.
e. As a slave you will follow behind one of Us where instructed to, and will NOT wander off or become distracted from Us. your focus will be that of a leashed slave.
f. Public conversation is limited to:
1) those that speak to you first,
2) anyone you knows,
3) general rules of kindness,
4) and to assist one of Us. General conversation is not permitted.
9. PROTOCOL AROUND OTHERS IN THE LIFESTYLE
a. Whether in public, or private, a slave Present themself, in this sequence, to:
i. Us as your Dominant, expressing "Master/or/Mistress", until told to continue or ordered otherwise.
ii. The Dominant to whom you have been assigned, when applicable, expressing "Sir/or/M'Lady", remain until told to continue or otherwise ordered.
iii. Present to others by direct order.
iiii. When alone, as a slave you will "Public Present" to other knowledgeable Dominants who understand the Present formality, whom you have previously met.
b. Whenever anyone touches, fondles, grabs, or otherwise uses you as a slave without Our permission, you have permission and are directed to state, strongly, if necessary, that the action was inappropriate and take whatever action is necessary to protect yourself as Our property. you as a slave can only be touched, fondled, grabbed or used with the consent of Us and only in the way We have directed that you can be used. This does not mean the general orders given by a Dominant friend of Ours will not be completely and quickly obeyed by you as a slave. As a slave you will, at all times, show curtious respect to other Dominants, unless an attempt is made to misuse you, as described above. you will immediately report any attempts to misuse you to either of Us or in case We are not around to a Dominant friend of Ours that is concidered a Family Friend or Honored House Guest. A list of Dominants that have earned this trust from Us will be provided to you.
SERVICE MODE
1. INTRODUCTION The "service Mode" is a mid-level protocol level I use for the general day to day service by you as a slave, usually in private, but may be used at BDSM functions. It can also be referred to as a "general purpose Mode" This Mode is intended to be a serving Mode for the pleasure of Us your Dominants. your primary purpose in the "service Mode" is to serve, obey and please Us as your Dominants, but allowes some less formal protocol, and more freedom of movement.
The "service Mode" is the primary mode that will be utilized to control you as a slave since it allows for more effective and useful control.
This level is less restrictive than the "slave Mode" and therefore is a privilege granted by the Us to you as a slave. This is the normal Mode for service, however, you should strive to become more "at home" in the "slave Mode."
While in the "service Mode," you will assume the "slave Mode" 1) if ordered to a position (example; kneel or teach) using the "attention" command "kajira" 2) or receiving punishment 3) or told to Present. If told to Present you will Present in the House Position in the "slave Mode" instead of the Standing "Public Present" in the "service Mode."
2. Service Mode - BEHAVIOR
1) Addressing:
In "service Mode" you will still address Us as "Master/Mistress" or " Sir/M'Lady"
you will use—
"yes/No, Sir/M'Lady "when responding to a question –
and "Yes, Sir/M'Lady", when told an order. NOTE: This is different than the "slave mode" where you would normaly say - "Yes,Master/Mistress", when responding to an order.
Examples of conversation with Us in this Mode:
"Sir/M'Lady, Your slave is going to the store, Do You wish anything. i hope to return in about 20 minutes."
If part of a conversation "Do You wish to have a glass of wine, Sir/M'Lady?"
and "may Your slave have a glass of wine, Sir/M'Lady"
If We are not engaging you in conversation you will say "Sir/M'Lady" before making a statement to get Our attention. - "Sir/M'Lady, Do You want a glass of wine." - If in conversation with one of Us the "Sir/M'Lady" will be spoken at the end of the sentance and not at the begining.
"Dinner is served, Sir/M'Lady" –
It is never wrong to use "Sir/M'Lady" before or after making a statement to Us.
2) Referring to yourself: As a slave, you will refer to yourself as "this slave" or "Your slave" at all times in this mode. you can also refer to yourself as "i" and "her." Example: "Sir, this slave is doing well on her driving below the speed limit as her Master ordered. Your slave does not need punished for speeding, Sir." The use of "I" , "me" , "mine" or "my" is not permitted.
3) Presenting:
you are not required to make the formal Present (the House Position) in this Mode, However you must do a "Standing Present". you must keep a mindful watch for Our needs and face Us to see if We need anything when We approache you or address you (Standing Present). If ordered by one of Us to "Present", then you will assume the "slave Mode" and stay in the "slave Mode" until told to "continue".
If you are allowed the privilege of serving Us for an extended period of time, in the "service Mode" the following rules apply to you Presenting.
A) If We leave the room you are in, you will upon Our return, Present to see if We wish you to continue. If you are sure that We are aware that you are Presenting and We say nothing to you, then you will continue in the "service Mode."
B) The same Present rules apply if you leave and return to the same room that We are in. you will observe Us to see if We desire your service before continuing your duties.
C) Presenting in the "service Mode" is defined as stopping what you are doing, facing Us, and by standing with your arms straight with your hands resting one ontop of the other infront of you. Head bowed slightly with eyes either on Us or lowered and awaiting Our acknowladgment by saying, "Sir/or/M'Lady.", you may move if necessary to see Us.
D) If you are seated and one of Us enters the room you are in, you will "Standing Present" to see if We desire your service, before continuing.
E) If you are seated on furniture and one of Us enters the room and takes a seat, you will seat yourself on the floor at Our feet after Presenting. If We both enter the room you are in, you will Present to Us both and then take a seat at My feet first, unless instructed otherwise. If you are already seated at one the feet of one of Us when the other enters the room, you will "Standing Present" and await permission to "continue."
4) "Rest" Position: As a slave, you are not to assume that you may sit on the furniture by Us without permission. you are allowed to sit in the "rest position" at Our feet. For a period of time, you may be granted permission to use the furniture, but one privilege is not a blanket permission. you should have a reason for wanting to use furniture and state the reason.
WHILE SITTING AT OUR FEET in the SERVICE MODE "REST POSITION":
This is a position that you are ordered to, or allowed while sitting at Our feet. It is a position instead of a MODE.
This is a "rest Position" while in the "service Mode" and is NOT the same as the "at ease Mode". you will still refer to yourself as "this slave" or "Your slave" and use "yes Sir/M'Lady" and "no Sir/M'Lady"
While sitting at Our feet you are still not to use "I" , "me" , "mine" or "my"
If given an order to perform for one of Us, you will respond "yes, Sir/M'Lady," and promptly obey the order. you will then return to the "rest Position" after completing the order. you need not Present after the order is completed, if you were in the "rest Position" prior to receiving the order.
When you are not performing a task for one of Us, you may freely sit in the "rest Position" at Our feet unless instructed otherwise.
5) Permission to Speak:
you will assume you have permission to speak in the "service Mode." you may ask Us questions, engage in conversation and make comments, but is expected to use "Sir/M'Lady" and respond to orders correctly.
AT EASE MODE
1. INTRODUCTION This is used mainly in public and is not to be abused.
"at ease Mode" in public. As Our slave, you will remain respectful to Us, while using subtle means to display your submission to Us. Example: "Public Presenting" or serving Us food and drinks. Sitting at Our feet if appropriate.
you are not allowed to wander off from Us unless you ask first for permission and given permission to do so. The permission is given for a particular purpose only.
you will walk directly behind on the right side of one of Us in this Mode.
you may freely engage in conversations in public with
1) people you know or any person speaking to you.
2) any person that will assist in serving Us or any person you can assist in serving Us.
3) Us and to others in public, while remaining respectful.
4) a common greeting to others when appropriate.
Note: If you are told to "stand" you will stand in the "relaxed Present."
This applies to BDSM settings as well. The only difference is that you are required to show a higher degree of respect by using Sir or M'Lady appropriately.
If given a "heel" command you will stop what you are doing in public and heel behind Us on Our right side.
In public, you will use the same seating rules as other Modes.
In Public, you are not to use Sir, where it can be heard by others and can refer to yourself as "I" or "my" - if appropriate in conversation with others. you may also refer to yourself in first person when appropriate.
"at ease Mode" in private.
The primary use of this mode is for conversation for short periods, and day to day service infront of Non-Lifestyle Guests and family, as well as any children too young to understand your slavery.
In private, the "at ease Mode" will be normally limited to conversations where you are sitting in front of one of Us or seated beside Us for the purpose of conversations that are pleasing to Us. As a slave, you should feel that this is not your normal state, or the best suited state to please Us. As a slave, you should be aware that this is not your normal Mode and should strive to feel more at ease in the "service Mode" and "slave Mode". We, from time to time, may place you in this Mode for longer periods of time, if We feels it is to Our advantage.
A) "at ease Mode" BEHAVIOR
General use of at ease mode in private.
i. In this mode, you will use "Yes/No Sir/M'Lady," when responding to a question or an order. Other examples of your conversation in this mode are: "Thank You, Sir/M'Lady"-- "May Your slave get You ___, Sir/M'Lady?" – "Your welcome, Sir/M'Lady"-- "beg Your pardon, Sir/M'Lady" -- "This slave needs to go to the store, do You need anything, Sir/M'Lady?" to show respect for Us --- and "Do You wish Your slave to have some wine, Sir/M'Lady?" you may freely discuss issues with Us, if it pleases Us. you will at all times remain respectful and mindful that you primary purpose is to serve and please Us. The reason for the "at ease Mode" is for the pleasure of Us and should be viewed as such. It is not necessary to say ‘Sir" before or after each sentence, but should still be used respectfully. you can freely worship Us at any time in this Mode, as long as it pleases her Us and does not interfere with Our activities.
ii. Disrespect or misuse of this mode may invoke punishment. As a slave, you should always be aware of your submission to Us and you cannot use this Mode to contradict or debate issues with Us.
iii. If you are in a public place, this is the primary Mode for telephone communications between you and Us, unless otherwise told.
iv. you may ask to be placed in the "at ease Mode" by stating "Sir/M'Lady, Do You wish that Your slave be placed in the "at ease Mode" for conversation?" you should thank Us before assuming the "at ease Mode." If the subject you wish to discuss is not obvious to Us, you should state what you wish to discuss in the "at ease Mode." you should be mindful that We know that all subjects can be discussed in a higher Mode. We will only allow the "at ease Mode" in situations where We feel that you will better please or serve Us in this Mode.
B) Presenting
If We leave the room you are in, you will upon Our return, "Standing Present" to see if We wish you to continue. If you are sure that We are aware that you are Presenting and We say nothing to you, you will continue in the "at ease Mode."
The same Present rules apply if you leave and return to the same room that We are in.
Presenting in the "at ease Mode" is defined as stopping what you are doing, facing Us, and by standing with your arms straight with your hands resting one ontop of the other infront of you. Head bowed slightly with eyes either on Us or lowered and awaiting Our acknowladgment by saying, "Sir/or/M'Lady," to see if We wish you to continue.
C) PUNISHMENT
you are automatically removed from this Mode and will assume the "slave Mode" when given any position or punishment command.
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Stages of Training and Collaring
We use four stages of training and collaring in Our House. Each and every slave must go through each and every one of these stages inorder to fully become a slave in Our House. There is no short cuts and no skipping of stages. These stages are set up so that each slave may be allowed to gradually explore the ideas of thier service to Us in a way and speed that is confortable to them as well as Us. A slave can not progress to the next stage untill it has completed all the requirements of the previous stage. Should the slave prove otherwise, it may be dropped back down to a previous stage and have to start all over again. Any slave that request release or is released by Us and wishes to return must again go through each of the stages as it did before. Once training has stopped for any reason all rights and privliages of that stage and any previous stage is lost and must be re-earned. As always with the rules of this House. We reseve the right to add to and adjust each stage as We see fit at anytime. Should this be found unacceptable to the future slave, they are welcomed to leave at anytime.
Prospect
This is the first stage of service in Our House. A prospect is someone that has shown an interest in serving as Our slave. As a prospect the time spent with Us is an informal one for the most part and is used as a getting to know one another on a personal level. This is the time where We feel out the prospective slave's personality. We expect several questions from them which We will answer to the best of Our knowladge, as We will have many questions for them that We expect them to answer with complete honesty.
This stage may last anywhere from several weeks to years, depending upon the prospect. But a prospect will not move on to the next stage untill all of the following has occured.
1) Any and all slaves expressing an interest in joining Our House Hold must not only communicate and get to know the one of Us but must also message and express thier desire to serve, and to get to know the other aswell. This will be done on the slave's initiative. And will include atleast a brief introduction and a statement of desire to serve, and why.
2) Any and all slaves expressing an interest in joining Our House Hold must fully read, understand, and accept All the Rules of Our House. Any and all slaves will be required to not only learn these rules but keep a copy of them to refer to incase of questions. Copies will be given to any and all slaves after they have shown the initiative in asking about them.
CoC (Collar of Concideration)
This is the second stage of service in Our House. This stage is used for the exploration of what it will be like for each slave to serve in Our House. They will begin training via Online in the protocol and manners that will be expected of them as slaves in Our House. They will also be given assignments on subjects that We feel are important for them to know. They will also begin exploring different "play" scenerieos inorder to explore many fetishes and fantasies. We will also begin to take over different aspects of the future slave's life.
1) The slave will be required to give Us thier given birth name and a reliable mailing address.
2) The slave will be required to give Us a full list of all interent websites where they have profiles, aswell as thier usernames for those sites and the passwords for those profiles.
3) The slave will be required to give Us a full list of thier friends and a brief discription of thier relationship with them.
4) The slave will be required to give Us a full detailed list of all thier belongings. This will include everything, Clothing, Jewelry, Books, Toys, Ect.
5) The slave will be required to give Us a full detailed list of thier day to day schedual (this may or may not be adjusted to suit the needs of the slaves training).
6) The slave will be required to set aside one night each week for a 3 hour online training session in YIM (during this time the slave will give thier full attention to the training session and will not be active on anyother sight or in anyother conversations).
7) The slave will recieve a tag of ownership by Us which the slave will be required to wear throughout the CoC (it is not to be removed unless it will interfere with the day to day life of the slave's job, schooling, or family).
8) The slave will complete all assignments in the manner they are instructed to in the time limit they are given to do them in. Should the slave not finish the assignments in the time alotted for them and have not previously asked for an extension for lagitimate reasons before hand, the slave will be punished in an according manner.
Training Collar
This is the third stage of service in Our House. This stage is where We begin to explore Real Time Sessions and slavery. This collar is given in person, and the tag from the CoC will be worn attached to it at all times that it does not conflict with ones job, schooling, or family. There will be normally atleast 3 Real Life meetings of a nonsexual friendly nature before the training collar is given. During this stage W/we will begin putting in to physical pracice all the protocols and manners that the slave learned during the CoC. W/we will also begin Real Life "play" exploring all the scenerieos that W/we explored during the online sessions to see what truely excites the slave and what limits the slave can handle.
1) Before any "play" the slave is required to give copies of State Identification, SSN, and Birth Certificatesfor personal and criminal background checks.
2) Before any "play" the slave is required to give copies of complete medical history.
3) Before any "play" the slave will be required to get a complete physical and tested to prove drug and disease free (slave will also recieve copies of Our current physicals and test proving Us to be D&DF aswell).
4) Inorder to "play" and move into Real Time a slave must live within a 2 hour drive of Us.
5) Inorder to "play" in Real Time a slave must be able to set aside one night each week for sessions (time length to be determined by the session before hand).
House Collar
This is the final stage of service in Our House. this is where the training for the slave is basicly complete and they have earned Our trust completely, and are therefore welcome to live with Us full time and Serve Us 24/7. This collar is given inperson during a ceremony that will involve all other slaves that wear a Training Collar or House Collar. It is only given to those who have gone through all stages of Our training and have proven both thier devotion and submission without question.
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ok
i have been asked a few questions so here are then answers
1. i prefer people between the ages of 21-35 why because i find that more attrictive
2. what is physical fit for me, you have to be able to do physical labor, male or female, if i tell you to spend 3 or 6 hours digging a hole i dont want you stoping because you cant do it. i do not find it attrictive to have a person who is heavy naked wearing nipple clamps and you gut is over you cock, that is not a turn on
also i want to see some in certin clothing that not just any one can wear
and it is not meant to offend heavey people , this is just what i prefer
if you are not sure if you fit this body type send me a clothed picture and i will see, and i will be honest
3. if you sound to desprate i will not take you, i think people who are desprate do not make good slaves, they usually have to much baggie or are just looking for kinky fun
4. if i tell you no then i mean it
5. it does not matter if you look like a modle you could still be a dumb ass, and a ass , i dont go on good just looks
6. and yes i do, do a back ground check. i worry more about safty then your privacy |
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iv got to ask i have recived a bunch of emails on a picture my husband drew, and the emails have to do with how in love they are with me by the picture and how beautyfull i am for my picture
can i say weird |
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| Age: 23 |
| Birmingham,
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