Kind, gentle, educated, verbal, sensuous guy is seeking his soulmate. She'll probably be fit, educated, spiritual, a non smoker and intelligent, but I'm open to the world of possibilities.

I don't consider myself a BDSM lifestyler. I've been to play parties and have lots of kinky friends in the lifestyle, but I don't want to make a religion out of my sexuality or sensuality. I want to enjoy it, not be controlled by it. I like interacting with sensual women, dominant and submissive alike. I think we all have a little of each in us and I enjoy the exchange of power that can take place between a man and a woman. I find it fun to exchange with a powerful woman. Dommes I challenge.Subs I nurture with firm resolve, loving kindness, and appropriate discipline when necessary.

I find it erotic to be taken across the lap of a woman for a paddling, and enjoy giving them too. I know how to call BS when I see it and will solid take appropriate but sensual action against it. Life is about change, learning and growing. I'm not so pig headed to think I can't learn from a woman. I'm reasonably intelligent, have done lots of living and have much more to do. There are things to be learned from me likewise, Grasshopper...

I'd like to hear from any female, age 21 - 60 that might want to communicate a little with me. I adore quality female companionship, even if you're not my soulmate.

Oh... about the handle... Well, I've had a passion for feminine footwear since I was 5. I bought my first pair when I was 13 and have probably clocked more miles in heels than most women. I've done lots of work to come to understand this. If you have a problem with that, then I'm sorry. You'll have to just get over the fact that I probably have much better legs than you do, plus a shoe wardrobe to die for. I'm not sissy, effeminate, gay or bi. I'm not a cross dresser, female impersonator, transvestite or have any other extreme perversion. Hard limits - no kids, no animals, no guys, no scat, no blood or non consentual activity. All your limits will be respectfully honored.

I'm open to exploring and want a one woman relationship that can last. I'm in no hurry to probe your panties. I'm seeking a woman, a sensual woman, with at least a touch of kink and can get over the fact that a male can feel confident enough with himself to openly admit he enjoys wearing heels and does it!

If you saw me on the street, you'd never guess. Having a metrosexual mindset makes me more responsive and able to communicate well with women. I'll talk to you about anything if we can establish mutual trust.

OK, that's enough of a read. Either you're interested or you're not. Even if you feel like you're not my ideal match and would care to chat, I'd probably be glad to hear from you. So click reply and talk to me or click your back button and may the Force be with you!

Hugs,
"Bubba"

By the way, what's a nice girl like you doing here anyway????