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Being a Dominant has nothing in common with being domineering, in fact one is a contradiction of the other. Any idiot can be taught how to use a flogger, cane, or crop. Simply because you have become adept at kicking someone’s ass is not the mark of a Dominant. Being Dominant is a state of mind. It is not a role. It is a state of being. A Dominant must remember that submission is a gift. A Dominant does not posses an unbridled supremacy or limitless power. The Dominant posses only the power in which his submissive has granted to him. A Dominant is always honest, to lie is to show you cannot be trusted. A Dominant accepts responsibility for all his actions, admit the fact that you messed up. A Dominant must watch over and protect all submissives.