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| I'm safe, sane, educated and articulate. I've got a great sense of fun and humor. Hang out with me and you'll have lots of music and fun in your life.
Outside of the bedroom, I'm self-employed, independent, a writer and musician. I love all kinds of music - especially acoustic music - and I play guitar and violin, among other things. I have a lot of keen interests in world affairs, politics, economics, movies and writing. I am physically active and enjoy running, swimming and working out. Ultimately I'd like to be with someone who shares those interests. At various times of my life, I've been a soldier, a musician, a teacher, a journalist, a financial professional, and found them all rewarding.
I don't smoke. I drink socially, but it's kind of rare and limited to one to two beers. I enjoy cafes, movies, ethnic dining, art galleries, and good conversation.
Inside the bedroom, I have lots of interests as well. I don't switch - I am purely dominant, though I can enjoy vanilla pastimes as well - as long as I'm the sex boss. ;-)
My adventurous interests include everything from bondage to forced sex to consensual nonconsent ideas. I love narratives of female captivity, interrogations, sensory deprivation, and dehumanization. I love the idea of keeping a woman as a "captive," as a domestic or field slave, or as a pet or livestock for a period of time. I love puppy and livestock ideas, lactation, bondage, dungeons, cages, torture, and all kinds of other ideas. Very much enjoy loving domestic discipline ideas and "Taken In Hand" ideas. Open to anything from occasional play to 24/7 TPE.
I don't like scat, and not into blood, other than maybe a tiny bit after a whipping... which is usually a good sign that it's time to stop.
Very marriage minded for the right person.
I'm a Christian. You don't have to be, but if you are, you'll know where I'm coming from.
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Things subs should keep in mind about doms:
1. A dom who is nice to you on your first date but rude to the waitress is not a good person. Watch how a man treats people with no power, or who can never do him any good.
2. When someone shows you who he is, believe him.
3. Sadists are fine. But beware of anyone who hurts you out of anger.
4. Strong men don't need to isolate you from your friends, family and other means of support.
5. Being a dom doesn't mean he's exempt from the rules of courtesy, good behavior and common sense. If anything, his responsibility to adhere to these cultural norms is even higher, because someone looks up to him.
6. A stiff prick hath no conscience.
7. Beware of Doms who take themselves too seriously.
8. Don't treat him as your everything if he's treating you like an option.
9. It's supposed to be fun! Or at least rewarding.
10. Don't send money to strangers on the Internet!
11. He should be using your submission to excite you, not to belittle you. Even if it involves belittling because you like humiliation, at the end of the day, you deserve to be with someone who loves you.
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| Age: 42 |
| Fort Wayne,
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