*** PLEASE NOTE ***

If you have clicked on the OKC link above, and then actually bothered to read my profile, you will see that I say " I’m not offering exclusivity, nor am I always going to be available if you want to see me or talk to me."

I mean this. I have been receiving messages from subs who think they can be my one-and-only and also from those who get into a strop if they don't receive a reply to their message within an hour or so. 

So let me reiterate: (i) I am not looking for a life-partner; and (ii) I have a life away from my computer screen. I get a ridiculous number of messages on here. If we have entered into a dialogue, then I will reply to you -- but it might not be the same day. If you message me on Thursday and I go away for the weekend on Friday, you might not hear from me until the following Monday. Should I, for some reason, decide to terminate the correspondence, I will let you know; I will not leave you waiting and wondering. 

However, hassling me for a response, getting sulky and petulant because I haven't replied in the time you think is acceptable, is a guaranteed way to make me decide -- however reluctantly -- that I no longer wish to know you. 

There may be Dommes out there who are happy to let their subs decide the frequency of their exchanges and generally to behave like spoilt brats; I'm not one of them. Are we clear?