You

I am looking for someone who is intelligent, naturally submissive, loving, kind, respectful, obedient and passionate. She should be looking for an LTR, able to relocate if necessary and open to marriage. That means single, most importantly emotionally available and not in a pile of debt. I may be relocating but that is not certain. You must be able to think for yourself. I need to be able to talk and you with me. I also will expect you to look out for me and my interests. To anticipate my needs, wants and desires. I expected you to have fantasies and to think of new thing that you want to try and that you think I would like.

I do not want a doormat nor a dishtowel but one who submit because she is willing. One who serves because she wants to serve, because she needs to serve and because she loves to serve. I hope that you do it because you will love me one day. You must know that submission is a gift that can never be forced – and that I do know and appreciate this fact.

If you think you need to be forced or broken then you don't understand submission. Compliance can be forced. True submission can never be forced. Submission comes from the heart and the head of the submitter. By now you probably have guessed that for me a good wife will believe that the woman supports the man in the natural order as Head of the House.

In real life ideally you should be a submissive who has a clear idea of who YOU are and what YOU want from life and from our relationship.

If you prefer to submit in private because you are in the closet and are active in vanilla life, you don’t have to be less active as long as the domestic life duties are fulfilled. If you are articulate and intelligent, things are even better as you could be my companion on outside pursuits. The neighbours and friends do not need to know so if you are not 'out' as a BDSM person and want to live quietly off scene or at the edge of the scene

Relationship

Loyalty, fidelity and integrity on the other hand are important to me. These are sometimes considered old fashioned virtues today but I believe they need to be present in both parents to set a good example to children. Mistakes have consequences, we reap what we sow. These are basic lessons that children need to learn. If you agree on this principle, you most probably agree on several other principals too. So take this view as a test.

Like the Victorians I believe that house and children are the responsibility of the wife. (A house husband I couldn't be, although in emergency my practical skills would ensure that whatever needed to be done was done) I don't see men and women as equals, I see them as complementary to each other. A good wife is a treasure; a bad wife is a nightmare. The Victorians had the view that a woman should have a dowry to take to her marriage - I don’t. What I shall do is to enclose you in my hug, protect and love you as well as I can show you your place, if necessary. I wouldn't consider myself being what most of the people here appear to consider a dom or a master to be ... many of those expressions are described in a way too narrow minded manner anyway. I prefer describing myself as a so called natural dominant, who not only likes but also is used to take responsibility for what he is doing or expecting from others. Besides I love a bdsm-life-style as well as a so called 1950’s or Victorian household, simply an old-fashioned one. Furthermore I’ll always appreciate everything my future partner will do for me as well as I’ll appreciate and love her for what she will be: Simply "MINE". Mutual respect and love got to be matters of fact as well as monogamy. For me, love comes first. However, such things have to develop over time, when getting to know each other and will still develop (further) when already living together.

You may live in a different country and that makes the start a bit tricky. The distance is a problem, but it is manageable if both parties have the will. The only solution to the distance problem is lots of communication via other means with a face-to-face meetings as soon and as often possible. Eventually relocation of one or both parties is required.

As to emphasise: I am serious about seeking a LTR - that includes marriage if the right person comes along.

Me

I can be very gentle and tender, and on the other side I love to treat my loving girl as a slave, humiliate her and train her to be a bad girl and a whore. One day she is a Queen, dressed and pleasing in velvet and silk, at other times a valuable fucktoy that has to please me. During the after-care, I love to tenderly kiss her pain-tears away. I might even kiss her after a good meal-J

I value my woman and do not place her at risk unnecessarily. For this reason I will not loan her out or provide her for public use. Nor will I expose her drugs or disease. I require her to maintain her health so she may serve me better and longer.- LOL Seriously speaking I’m a bit boorish in real life as I take a responsible view on insurance, finance and so on. As you probably guessed I’m conservative on some things - and on other things I’m liberal. Open minded to examine new points of view but seldom change a decision once reached. Nationality is not important but I want my woman to speak English understandably, so no piglish to me.