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Herozero2020

I consider my self a normal man no more no less .
I see BDSM as a small part of me it does not define me but it does at times dictate my desires . Being a dominant man does does not mean Im loud outspoken or a true alpha male? I am more of a strong , passionate man that interacts with others through conversation and compassion. Dont mistake my kindness for weakness because if you cross me you could see the dark side of me of which even I dislike but that is very Necessary in this world .
Bdsm has been in my life for 20 years and I have a clear idea of what bdsm is to ME.
there is ultimately no specific way to live your life within the bdsm community nor guide lines anyone who says there is ....is just wrong. There are social bdsm protocols that people adhere to which I do respect and that which I have and adhere to also. I do how ever believe in a balance which is what will truly make anything work.