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rachelleNikkijMadisonturningrightsoumisespastiche
I'm very interested in playing, I have very special skills but I'm also looking for a live-in submissive slave girl wanted, FT or PT, with your own beautiful garden view room, very private. Play partners always welcome to. Employment in my bookshop a possibility. I have it all here, all you need is a thin, slender or muscular body, only a little flab at the most and a submissive and feminine nature. Small breasts preferred. Must love books. I also have a group of good friends male and female who can participate if that's what is desired.
A lot of women here are looking just to play around and I like that too, but what I really want is to meet women interested in exploring the possibilities of a master-slave relationship, either full time or part time, with written contract. I have experience with this and it has been a delicious and edifying. You will be first required to read classics of sexology, Morin's The Erotic Mind (essential) Taylor's Sex in History, etc. I'm a professional scholar & businessman, PhD, author, editor, publisher and ex-professor, with a bookshop long established here in the Bay Area (31 years now). I love socializing and good intelligent conversation. I was a punk rock drummer and crazed artist in SF in the late 70's so don't think I'm a total nerd. The kind of relationship I prefer is one where we are partners in each others freedom and growth, pleasure and kink, each playing out our natural dominance & submissive roles harmoniously, and experimenting with things we want to explore, edges we want to encounter. Ultimately I'm looking for a full time live-in slave but it will start out as some kinky play (after a drink and chat), then evolve into a part time arrangement so that we can see how well we harmonize and how good the chemistry is. The whole 'sir, master' thing is not my scene, and I find it pathetically shallow and weak. The kind of d/s relationship I'm into is much more of a power exchanging partnership that involves love and respect on both sides, and most importantly extremely hot and nasty orgasmic sex.. A lot of women in 'the scene' have never tasted what I am talking about, most just know about the idiocy they learned on the net, and the dim bulb doms here just for shallow unconscious kink. Rape, abuse, molestation, humiliation are best experienced under controlled circumstances that only a highly experienced dominant can provide. You as my girl are interested in health, the mysteries, in doing something important with your life and exploring your sexuality with an educated and experienced partner. You have dreams and passions. You are liberal and want to learn and grow intelligently. You find strong, brainy, alpha men compelling. If we live together your rent food and utilities are covered. I can even send you to college if you like, but you have to help with laundry, dishes, grocery shopping and eventually you should get a part-time job. In the meantime you work a few hours every week helping me in my rare bookshop on Piedmont Ave, and also in my literacy business where I serve disadvantaged kids.. If you have questions, ask, I'll tell you the full truth. I've traveled all over the world many times, studied on three continents, very intelligent and very much a social dominant animal with lots of good friends. I have a gorgeous bookshop on one of the best shopping and clubbing streets in the Bay Area. My home is large, private, right off the lake, and filled with 20,000 books. Your room is furnished with antiques, fine art, books, with a garden view, very quiet. I have other women if you like that. Best wishes to you here. Todd
4/27/2012 12:46:24 AM

Just back from the hour-and-half tour of The Armory (kink.com headquarters), wow!  Is this place the hottest BDSM club in America?  The whole set-up is genius, especially 'The Upper Room'  I really appreciated the vibe there, intelligent (though I never saw any library) professional, and no gimmicky crap like a lot of other clubs and dungeons.  And the whole place (bought for 14.5 million) is handsomely designed. I plan to spend some time there.

4/20/2012 12:32:05 AM

Dudes!  I am straight, not bi.  Yes, I have had sex with men but its been a long time and I'm not interested (unless you have a hot woman for us--even then probably not) so please stop sending me messages about my cock. I want to only meet women here. Thank you.

4/15/2012 11:30:53 PM

I've been off this site for almost two years.  I'm looking for playmates and a live-in girl, PT or FT.  I've always been a very attentive lover, but about seven years ago I took a quantum leap after studying with a sexologist, workshops, and a lot of reading and practice.  So there is a reason why many if not most women tell me that I am the best lover they have ever been with, that I gave them the most powerful orgasms in their life, best massage, etc.  I'm very experienced in both traditional relationships (marriage etc) and alternative ones. This is a serious offer that will be a positive and empowering experience for the right girl. Email me but soon I'd like to talk on the phone.

1/2/2010 6:55:44 PM

Seems like most dom's idea of being a slave master is to be constantly disrespectful to his slaves. People, this would be considered an abomination in any real slave culture. In Greece, Arabia, India, China, slaves were treated with great respect, even reverence. Their owners knew that being a slave was hard and that the slave needed love and respect. I know all about the incredibly powerful experience of being humiliated and treated like shit, but that has to be tightly contained within a structure of love and care for it to ever work for long, (unless you are dealing with a truly self-destructive slave, a very dangerous situation). Too much ignorance here, both historically and psychologically.

Daddysarmcandy
 
 Age: 25
 Mesa, Arizona