i'm looking for a female to control my orgasms. on my own i just can't do it. i've tried. i wonder if there is a woman out there who's ultra strict, fair, and articulate, who would love to render my balls a dark shade of blue and my ass a dark shade of red (virtually my only other kink is spanking. i love the feeling of being taken over a lap and paddled hard. at least i think it would be nice to have my ass burned when the frustration runs too deep)? i fantasize about being teased mercilessly, spanked, then locked into a chastity device before, or during, being made to service you until you are thoroughly satisfied. i'm not interested in being a sissy, a slave, being dressed in women's clothing, or whatever else mistresses fantasize about. simple tease, denial, spanking, and male chastity are what i have in mind. long distance is fine if we can meet physically on occasions just to spice it up. so while location isn't critical, it is somewhat important. if you'd like to discuss limits and possibilities, drop me a note and let's chat about it.