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| We are just your normal couple that deals with all the stresses and pleasures life throws at us. Throw kids in the mix (and thank god they are grown and departed) :-) and we have a hectic schedule at times.
Though we may seem normal on the outside, we are decidedly kinky, and live D/s as a lifestyle. It is a part of who we are.
I am a Dominant married to a wonderful and perfect subbie in a “traditional” or “old school” D/s relationship. In my years in the lifestyle, I’d have to conclude that only through D/s can a couple have the deep trust, and abiding love, that is sorely lacking in what we might call a traditional vanilla relationships. D/s is deeper and more meaningful because it is based on complete trust and treats both party's as equals. Unlike most vanilla relationships, D/s is about equality of the partners in the relationship--both have equal power even though one is dominant and the other submits. The trust far surpasses what we find in the vanilla setting. No two are devoted to one another as in a D/s relationship because of the trust that must be present. It is based on those things, and our own kinky proclivities, that we intricately identify D/s as a part of our being.
We like to get to know people and are not into the meaningless shallow friendship/relationship, and yet open to the occasional kinky play.
We are largely monogamous, but for the right couple, we would be open to play. In other words, we would like to find couples with which we could eventually play with, BUT we do not want the relationship with any other couple(s) to be centered on sex or sessions. Friendship, chemistry, elegant discussion, and good hearts come before anything else. As a Dom, I will not share my sub, nor does she want to share me, with just anyone--especially for the sake of getting laid. SO, when we get together with friends, we are not necessarily wanting to play. Please make a note of this. We are here as a couple, and we play or socialize as a couple. To be clear: we both are open to sharing each other, but only if there is a connection on a level other than sexual.
If you have gotten this far into the profile, then we must reiterate, we are looking for like-minded couples to form a vibrant community of good friends, that includes the occasional sharing and playtime. However, not to be redundant, friendship is a must and must come first.
Drop US a line if you have questions! Cheers!
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