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Dom/Sub Couple, 65/47,  Surprise , Oregon
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We are a Dominant Couple who, together, are open to teaching, guiding and caring for a submissive woman who truly wants to embark on her journey.

you are

Naturally capable of conducting yourself like a lady in public and intellectual settings, always with a sense of, and an eye for, following Our lead.

A reasonably well educated woman who is very comfortable communicating thoughts and ideas, one who is open to the possibilities in most all things be it social, topical and, of course, sensual.

A woman with the capability to laugh and who does it often, who enjoys lifes blessings and challenges and who, at the same time, longs to experience (or re-experience) the freedom of submission and all that it entails.

A woman who is cautious, a bit nervous about all of this and, at the same time excited and at peace with the prospect of embarking on this journey. In short, a woman with common sense and the knowledge that this very well may be the place and situation where you belong and can go beyond simply existing but thrive in joining the two of Us.

A peaceful person, one whos comfortable with her station in life, what shes accomplished and where she wants to go from here, a woman who values family and domestic tranquility.

youre ready to take the time to get to know Us, as we are you, in order that the possibilities to proceed further than a lunch date may come in their own time and place and with everyone at ease as to where it may lead.

youre a woman with questions to be asked which will be answered in by Us with complete candor.


Were open to communication and the discourse that takes place as We get to learn more about you and you, in turn, get to learn more of Us.

We believe in the sanctity of relationships and know that pretty much nothing happens instantly. Patience, as Grandpa said, is a virtue and, by Our Own relationship, we can attest to the value of taking the time to build safety and trust with Each Other.

We laugh, at life and at ourselves sometimes, while maintaining a warm and nurturing environment between He and She.

We have differing opinions on some things and thats - just - fine, because Were a good fit, as you would be should that time come.

Titles, protocol and instruction shall come, as mentioned before, in their own time and place.


So the choice is yours and solely yours. Shall you take the first step in replying to this brief dissertation, or shall you not?

Ponder, Consider, Decide.

Best Regards.













Gender Identity:










 6' 0"

 180 lbs




Gender Identity:









 5' 7"



Actively Seeking:

Submissive female



 Fine Dining

 Musical Theater



 Breast Play


 Suspension Bondage

 1950s Lifestyle



 Art Galleries

 Coffee Shops






 Anal Play

 Body Worship

 Cane / Crop Discipline



 Local BDSM Community

 Domestic Service


 Hair Pulling

 Housework Service

 Medical Play

 Mental Bondage

 Obedience Training

 Orgasm Control

 Maid / Butler Service

 Outdoor Bondage

 Public Play




 Comedy Shows

 True Crime

 Body Art







 Intellectual Discourse





 Lifestyle BDSM

 Old Guard



 Classical Music



 Opera Music



 Rock Music

 Auto Racing



 Corner Time

 Eye Contact Restrictions




 Bar Hopping



 Conservative Politics


 Hard Limits:

 Female Supremacy

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Journal Entries:
11/21/2021 9:52:11 AM

Nice to have this feature back.

We are currently near El Centro CA. Feel free to get in touch if you are close. 

3/29/2018 11:57:47 AM
PS We do presentations at various kink events. If you're interested in learning about being a rope/suspension demo assistant get in touch. We may have a spot for you.

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