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Let me first say, since it appears to be important to many people, that I do have pictures and will gladly send them to those I end up having a conversation with. I just haven't posted them pubicly.

I am an intelligent, dominant male who is relatively new to the lifestyle, but not to the ethos of D/s. Let me first say what I am not looking for: I am not looking for a doormat to be walked on, a woman to abuse or someone on whom to play out my insecurities (and to be frank, I have met far too many self-professed Doms who are seeking exactly those things and I find it repulsive). I am not into inflicting pain and suffering on others (though I do recognize that pain has a place in many aspects of our lives). The desire to control should never be used for the end of hurting someone else, but only to guide them to something better, whether it be personal improvement, emotional security, or a heightened sexual response. I'm not looking for a woman who doesn't have opinions or thoughts about the world; indeed, such a woman would bore me to tears.

So what am I looking for? I'm looking for a submissive woman who wants to explore the sexual psychology of our mutual needs further, and who understands that the mind is the most powerful sexual organ we have. I'm looking for someone who views their submission as a gift beyond price, to be given only to the One who touches her soul and compels her surrender. Thus, I am opposed to polyamory in my own life and have no interest in it. If you're looking for someone to mistreat you, I'm probably not the right guy. I am much more a Daddy than a tyrant (though I don't much care for infantilism, I do crave the role of Daddy, the one who makes her feel safe and secure and loved and disciplined).

Those are my random thoughts at the moment. I'll probably add to them later.

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laura39
 
 Age: 25
 New york, New York