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Having ended a twenty plus year mainly vanilla with elements of BDSM relationship I now understand my change to wishing to become sub to my partner was probable the root cause. My partner while in part happy I was pushing for her to take control was not naturally happy as a top and the partnership ended. I now seek to again enjoy a close relationship but understand that person will need to be dominate by nature for it to work. Accepting I am happiest as a sub to wonderful partner is not one I have found easy to understand and accept as in many areas outside our life together and in the bedroom, most would view me as being a strong personality who enjoys leading. In my working life, I held senior posts managed large numbers of staff working often in a very male dominated industry. It would have been difficult for me then to be submissive and as such I subdued the desire which I now understand created problems for myself. I enjoy humour and see the funny side of most things in life which can been seen as somewhat brattish. I would welcome ensuring I can make my mistress life enjoyable and takes out stress and carry some of the day to day burden. Having trained as a chef I am able cook most meals be they French, Italian, Indian, Chinese cuisines and do most household chores. Unfortunately, DIY gardening are best done by others. Maybe as part of my feminine side I have always been a natural carer and cared for my parents until at 86 and 89 they both died. I enjoy most aspects of Fetish activities and seek to always extend boundaries increase levels as one becomes more confident with the person who you are playing with. Humiliation such as tease and denial I adore while others such as enemas has been a desire of mine to experience and always willing to explore others. I am currently working on increasing level I can accept for impact play which I am told is already good. I love the feel of rope and can recall enjoyment as a child when being tied up by a girl with her skipping rope. Electric work, pegging, CBT, face sitting, candle wax has all been enjoyed. I love above all else providing oral stimulation to my mistress. As I have developed this past year I have discovered the joy of worshipping at a mistress feet and her footwear. Providing a sensual and relaxing massage or ensuring her boots and shoes are shining bright. All that said I desire someone who can get inside my head and take hold of my mind so I will follow them on any journey or path. In return I will offer them total obedience commitment to ensuring they are loved and worshiped as they so rightly deserve to be. I do have issue with claustrophobia so certain plays may be outside my limits other things such a female attire may have come a bit late in life now as even Hollywood studios would struggle to make me look lady like. Some watersports which I have never tried are outside my world in part due to my own kidneys. Scat along with eating most vegetables is a no from me. Living in Cumbria we currently have very few meetings or events so I travel to the North East, Scotland and Lancashire to meet like-minded folk. I plan next year to see if we cannot try and engage other locally and rectify this current status quo. In my vanilla life, most important are my two Labradors dogs we are out every day and walk 60 plus miles each week. I give up some of my time to raising awareness and funds for a major charity.

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DaddysHunnyPot
 
 Age: 28
 Pretoria, South Africa